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Sex Advice: 23-year-old woman feeling sick and body hurting after using vaginal ring

Question. I am a 23-year-old woman and I have been using a vaginal ring for contraception. I inserted this myself, but took the ring out for a week, during my period. Then, my husband and I had sex a few times. Ever since I put the ring back in, I have been feeling sick and my body hurts too. What should I do?

Answer. Check with the gynaecologist to find the reason. The vaginal ring is out of fashion, so also talk to her about the best options for you.

Sex Advice: 52-year-old man worried about 47-year-old wife losing interest in sex

Question. I am a 52-year-old man, and my wife is 47. Both of us work. I would like to have sex with my wife at least twice a week. I look forward to Sundays eagerly so as to be able to do so. But, of late, my wife has lost interest in sex. I enjoy oral sex, but she is not interested in performing that. I love my wife, and I do not want to cheat on her. How can I bring her around? Please advise.

Answer. Try to find out why she has lost interest. Is there some change in your behaviour - like, are you not showing a caring attitude? - or is there some physical problem? If it's the latter, she should visit a gynaecologist. She can take herbal Charak capsules in the morning and evening for one month.

Sex Advice: 62-year-old man feels aroused but fails to get an erection

Question. I am 62-years-old and my wife is 52. I had to install two stents. Now, I'm normal and the doctor has permitted me to enjoy sex twice a month. I exercise regularly. Now, I have weak erections. I feel aroused, but fail to get an erection. So my wife is unhappy. What's the reason for this? Presently I'm under medication for various ailments. Kindly suggest medicines to save our marriage.

Answer. It is best to follow your cardiologist's advice. Start with herbal medicines for e.g. take Vigomax Forte twice a day and wait for another four weeks for results. Regarding Tadalafil (Megalis), consult your surgeon and if he agrees, take a 10 mg dose repeat only, after next two days if required.

Sex Advice: Guy worried after pregnant girlfriend wanting to keep the baby

Question. I am a 23-year-old man. In the past few years, my girlfriend has gotten pregnant twice, but we decided to abort it. She's pregnant again. But, this time, she wants to keep the baby. However, I am neither financially nor emotionally ready to father a child. She feels that if she aborts the child again, she may not be able to get pregnant again. It's a subject that I cannot discuss with my family members, and I don't even want to discuss it with them, because I don't want to be pressured into marriage. I am not financially independent. Also, I am really scared at the thought of parenting a child. I do not think I have the skills to raise a child, at least now. Please guide me. She is one month pregnant. Is there any other way to deal with this situation? I am certain that I do not want a child, and I'd like you to suggest alternative ways on handling this situation.

Answer. Your unethical behaviour astounds one as does your foolishness in not take adequate steps to ensure protection in spite of two previous episodes of abortion. The rights of the woman come first, and her will must prevail. It is for you as a decent person to respect her wishes and to find a workable solution. I highly recommend you both take the help of a counsellor.

Sex Advice: Man worried about small red dots at the tip of his penis

Question. I am a 31-year-old and my wife is 27. We are planning to start a family, but whenever we have sex without protection, small red dots appear at the tip of my penis. These hurt, but I recover in four or five days when I wash my penis with soap and water. Is this normal? What precautions do I need to take in order to keep this from happening in the future?

Answer. It's best you visit a skin specialist to identify the problem. And, make sure that you do enough foreplay so that she is well lubricated.

Sex Advice: Can a woman conceive if semen is inserted into vagina by hand?

Question. I am a 36-year-old man and I got married recently. My wife and I are planning to have a baby immediately. However, I am not sure that my semen enters her when we engage in sexual activity. Hence, I also take some semen in my hand and insert it inside her vagina. Can she conceive if I insert my semen inside her in this manner? I also hope that this act of mine does not create any health problem for her. Please tell me what is the best way to ensure that she gets pregnant.

Answer. After you discharge in the vagina, the strongest sperms make the way forward towards the uterus and the rest trickle out.

Sex Advice: Man worried about son growing up to become a transvestite

Question. I am a 27-year-old man and I have a two-year-old son. Some days ago, I saw him slipping into his mother's shoes and wrapping a dupatta around himself like a sari. I am now worried that he may be a transvestite or grow up and say that he's a woman trapped in a man's body. Is there anything I can do to help him grow up without any confusion?

Answer. Yes. Get over your confusion. He does not have any as he surveys the world including his testicles.

Sex Advice: Until what age is it possible for a man to have a healthy baby?

Question. I am a 40-year-old man and I would like to have children some day, but I have not met the woman I would like to marry as yet. These days I find that my ejaculate has reduced. Besides, I have heard that as a man grows older the chances of his having a healthy baby declines. Is that true? What can I do to increase the amount of ejaculate? And, until what age is it possible for me to have a healthy baby?

Answer. It is true that more abnormalities occur in the pregnancy in older couples. There are now special tests which are available to check if the foetus is healthy. The age to have a healthy baby for a woman is until menopause, and for a man it's through life. Visit an urologist for further discussion.

Sex Advice: Guy suffering from premature ejaculation and night fall when he masturbates

Question. I am a 23-year-old man. When I was 18, I started masturbating three to four times a day. Now I suffer from premature ejaculation and night fall and when I masturbate, I ejaculate in seconds. Please advise.

Answer. Focus on daily exercise including Kegel exercise. Eat a healthy diet and masturbate occasionally.

Sex Advice: Does eating pineapple makes your semen sweeter?

Question. I have heard that eating pineapple makes your semen sweeter. Is there any truth to this? And, if so, then, how much pineapple does one need to eat to experience these effects?

Answer. It's a good marketing strategy, probably one sold to you by a vendor who wanted to sell his pineapples. You should try to find a sweet lass instead.


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