Question. I am a 40-year-old woman and my husband is 45 years old. We have two children, and my husband and I love each other very much. Some time ago, however, I came across a 50-year-old man online and the thing is, I really like him too. He is a married man as well and has two children of his own. The problem is that this man keeps requesting me to have sexual intercourse with him. He is very persistent and he keeps asking me to meet him at a hotel. I am very tempted to do this and I do fantasise about having sex with him occasionally. I feel very torn now, as there's a part of me that feels that doing so would be very wrong. I am very confused and conflicted and would really appreciate your advice on the matter. What would you recommend I do?
Answer. Fantasise, but go no further as problems of all kinds can arise. Example: major loss of the love of your husband.