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Sex Advice: Want to see wife in sexual act

Q. I am a 49-year-old man and my wife is 44. We are happily married with 4 children. I have a strong desire to see my wife having sex with another man and then have her myself immediately after. Around 16 years ago, I persuaded her to sleep with a European tenant who was using a part of our house. She agreed and the fact that she has had sex with somebody else turned me on. Again, after two years I convinced her to repeat the act with the same man in his house to which she agreed. The whole process filled me up with exhilaration. Many years later, she went to India and had sex with my brother-in-law without my knowledge. She informed me about this later and I wasn’t perturbed a bit. Instead it excited me. We have a stable life and a 23-year-old daughter. For the last few years, I am again caught with wild fantasies about her. This time I want to watch her during the act, but the problem is she’s refusing to be a part of it. I have convinced her several times but it is of no avail. I have no interest in having sex myself with other woman but this thought of seeing her in act is haunting me. What do I do?
Abhay
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla:

With a cooperative wife you have had a ball all your life. Where is the need to write about it? Nobody is interested in reading about your perversions. My suggestion is that someone (whoever is wise and mature) should put an end to this insanity.

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Sex Advice: Guide To Giving The Perfect Blowjob

Yet another awesome contribution sent in by Meetha Tota:

Some women are masters of the perfect blowjob, while inexperienced others may think a blowjob is actually blowing on the dick. Since many women will hopefully read this site, I figured I’d pass on some great advice. Since I figure I may even have a few gay or bisexual men as well, this guide is also for you. And last but not least, if your girlfriend/wife/boyfriend is having problems in the oral sex department, send them this way! This will be sure to remedy the problem for sure! Read the rest of this entry »

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Sex Advice: Dating safety tips for everyone

A very useful contribution sent in by Meetha Tota which everyone should take seriously.

After reading this VERY carefully please send it on to everyone you know…put it on your blogs…send it IM…send it via email and even tell your family and friends verbally… I want everyone to remain safe and healthy so please read these carefully and take heed when speaking to people online. If you do decide to meet people online please do the following so it is at least a safer meeting for all of you:

1. Meet in a VERY public place. The brighter the better. People are less inclined to try anything if there is a good chance they will get caught. People who are really wanting to meet you and are safe will not take offense to meeting in this type of area. If the person you are meeting gets upset at the suggestions then do not meet them.

2. If you feel it is not a safe meeting area take a friend with you. Do not allow yourself to get roped into doing anything or going anywhere that might make you feel uncomfortable. You must feel safe in whatever venue you decide to meet them in.

3. Pick a place you know well…preferably where the people there know you well. If you have someone who knows you make sure they meet the person so if there is a problem they can describe the person you were with. DO NOT meet in hotels even if the reson you are meeting is sexual…meet in public first and talk a little while…if it is going to happen it still will but you have then covered all your bases to make it a safer experience for both of you.

4. Get any information you can before you meet. If possible get phone numbers, email addresses, and if at all possible a picture of them before the meet so you know who you are looking for and so that there is a picture of the person you are seeing available if there is any problems. Make sure someone you trust has access to the information and send it via email to someone that you trust.

5. Talk to people you trust and give any information you can. If you do meet with a man and they mistreat you please let someone know so this does not escalate and become a situation like those you are about to read about.

Please just understand that I am not trying to tell you what to do I just want you to be safe and find new friends. People are not all bad we just must be careful and watch out for ourselves and those we love.

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Sex Advice: How To Seduce A Sleeping Woman

An awesome contribution sent in by meetha tota:

Picture it: you get home late from a hard day’s work and your girl’s already asleep, or you wake up first thing in the morning to go to work and you’re in the mood for sex. When you feel like getting it on but your girl is sleeping, what can you do? Read the rest of this entry »

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Answers to questions on HIV & AIDS

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ’s) related to HIV/AIDS answered in a very simple easy-to-understand manner.

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1st December - World AIDS Day


1st December is the official World AIDS Day. India (not surprisingly) has the largest HIV positive population in the world. Please go through the links mentioned below to educate yourself about this dreaded disease. Remember, you have only life, live well, and one is enough. Practise safe sex. Always use a condom.

Related links:
HIV and AIDS in India
Info. on HIV @ Wikipedia
HIV information / testing / treatment directory
Ask the doctor
Fast facts about AIDS

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Sex Advice: Capacity to have sex is declining

Q. I am a 27-year-old bachelor. Earlier I used to have sex four times in two hours. But now my capacity has decreased. I am able to participate only once and the second time it takes me too long to erect. What could be the reason? Please let me know.
AGR
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla:

You seem to be unaware of the fact we all start growing old right from the time we are born. The rates at which our body parts and we grow older differ in different individuals. Your sexual apparatus seems to have reached the ripe old age of 27 and you will now have to live with it.

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