Sex Advice: Want to see wife in sexual act
Q. I am a 49-year-old man and my wife is 44. We are happily married with 4 children. I have a strong desire to see my wife having sex with another man and then have her myself immediately after. Around 16 years ago, I persuaded her to sleep with a European tenant who was using a part of our house. She agreed and the fact that she has had sex with somebody else turned me on. Again, after two years I convinced her to repeat the act with the same man in his house to which she agreed. The whole process filled me up with exhilaration. Many years later, she went to India and had sex with my brother-in-law without my knowledge. She informed me about this later and I wasn’t perturbed a bit. Instead it excited me. We have a stable life and a 23-year-old daughter. For the last few years, I am again caught with wild fantasies about her. This time I want to watch her during the act, but the problem is she’s refusing to be a part of it. I have convinced her several times but it is of no avail. I have no interest in having sex myself with other woman but this thought of seeing her in act is haunting me. What do I do?
Abhay
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla:
With a cooperative wife you have had a ball all your life. Where is the need to write about it? Nobody is interested in reading about your perversions. My suggestion is that someone (whoever is wise and mature) should put an end to this insanity.
mahesh said,
December 26, 2006 @ 7:52 pm
HI MR ABHAY,SINCE ADAM & EVE,MAN HAS BEEN VOYEURIST & THE WOMAN EXHIBITIONIST.THERE’S NO DOUBT THAT THE PLEASURE ONE GETS 2 C HIS OWN SPOUSE IN SEXUAL ACT WITH SOME ONE ELSE(WHO EVER IT MAY B )IS UNBELIEVEABLE THOSE WHO’VE ENJOYED CAN ONLY SAY SO.WELL DONE KEEP IT UP .IF U R IN DELHI & NEED ANY HELP THIS MATURED STUD IS AVAILABLE
Larry said,
December 26, 2006 @ 9:06 pm
Dear Abhay,
If you are reading comments on your question , why not you invite me to fuck your so sexy wife and you can fantasize .
If so reply i will provide you my contact details.
Cheers!!!
Larry
Canada
fcuktime said,
December 26, 2006 @ 9:08 pm
checkout how many others she has fucked without u r knowledge..is that kid urs….
dengu said,
December 26, 2006 @ 10:32 pm
abhay,
i am willing to fuck her. after she has me she will be such a slave to me that she will be willing to let you not only see her but she will let you take her in the ass while i take her in the pink. let me know if yo are interested.
Anonymous said,
December 27, 2006 @ 12:42 am
are u a husband or pimp.
ranjith said,
December 27, 2006 @ 1:13 am
common man…. where people like u r hiding in India. I cant even find one in my neighbour hood. If u fing any difficulty in finding a mate to ur bitch and ur 23 year old daughter just get in touch with me.
fantasy said,
December 27, 2006 @ 1:24 am
Prem latha…it’s not fair to brand this insane when u r on a website that promotes pervertness. shut up and stop bigotry
ashisforu said,
December 27, 2006 @ 1:50 am
abbe chutiye Abhay, ur such a fuckin pimp to make ur own wife a prostitute. I fully agree wid Prem Lathaji, this is an insanity n this man should be jailed for this.
But i wonder how his wife agreed to this insanity.
Fuckin unbelievable….
Khan said,
December 27, 2006 @ 2:09 am
In my opinoin es chutiya ko to goli mar dene chaheye aur es ke shoq ko bhe ya tu ye admi sick hay apni biwi ko prostitute bana ke rakh diya hay sae harami ne .
Anonymous said,
December 27, 2006 @ 2:38 am
how gross man..wat kind of a man r u..u suck man u suck..
dheeraj said,
December 27, 2006 @ 2:59 am
Invite me at your place, I’ll do the requisite.
Bhola Baba said,
December 27, 2006 @ 6:30 am
May All Be Happy, May All Be Disease Free!
ABHIJIT SAWANT said,
December 27, 2006 @ 6:38 am
abe maderchod,
ye aadmi hai ya hijada hai jo khudki wife ko chudvana chahata hai.
abe lavdeke baal chullubhar pani me dub mar bhosdike !!!!!!!!
sriram said,
December 27, 2006 @ 8:00 am
what kind of human are u,y cant u understand our culture ,does ur father and mom is like tht
rk said,
December 27, 2006 @ 9:37 am
dear friend i think u r enjoinging u life. y r u spoling u r wife life friend just do one thing go to docter.
sridhar said,
December 27, 2006 @ 9:49 am
Invite me to your place. I will do whatever necessary.
Razez said,
December 27, 2006 @ 9:54 am
every man has entitled to his opinion.though i totally agree with prem.Do respect your wife’s wish and start treating her like a human being.
Have a wonderful life man, love your partner who i assume will mourn when you die.She will right??
LOL said,
December 27, 2006 @ 10:29 am
Thats good man. But i know its fun sometimes but only in fantasies not reality buddy!! Watever v do in bedrtoom stays in our bedroom, my wife and me talk bout threesome while havin sex but to have it in reality is next to impossible. Cmon man u cant share ur wife!!
restinout said,
December 27, 2006 @ 11:18 am
This is absolute nonsense, This could happen one in a million and more over you are making your statement as a matter that would be common.
Too bad Too Bad
Thats really funny “fcuktime said” but I think abhay will not consider this fact.
RAGHU said,
December 27, 2006 @ 11:34 am
This lousy mother fucking pimp should be castrated in public.I too want the pleasure of seeing him castrated
RAGHU said,
December 27, 2006 @ 12:36 pm
So sad! I never met you !!!!
singam said,
December 27, 2006 @ 2:41 pm
Even though im a pervert,,,,,sharing your wife sucks man..all those who said come on, show me your wife,i will fuck her for you, ask them to tape you fucking their wifes…and post it up here…lets see if they are keen in fucking your wife…Fuck culture…listen to your heart not your dick…if you still like these perversion…why not get a gay to fuck your ass and cum his load in your mouth and get your wife to watch…she will sure get turned on….asswipe…atleast bring up your daughter in a gd way…or you like to watch her get fucked too…does it hurt when i say these stuff,because it shud.Or get your dick chopped off.And to
Mahesh…are you not shamed of your self.Young dick can shut up why cant you.Still can say matured stud…go check in the mirror is that a dick or a pussy….idiot..
Singam……
afsheen said,
December 27, 2006 @ 10:22 pm
All u guys out here who r bad-mouthing Abhay for being a pervert, and so on….hav u ever considered the wife here?? She has agreed on all the previous encounters, which definitely means she has enjoyed them. If she was that cultured, she would never hav gone forward to accept her hubby’s proposals. She may hav been pensive at first, but this has happened in many occasions. Now if Abhay wants to see her while she is in the act, is there somthing wrong in it? All she is afraid of now is she doesnt want to let him see how she enjoys it. Tats it…she wants to keep him with the illusion tat she does this just for him..and she doesnt like it a bit. So i suggest Abhay u hav every rite to see her perform, as she is as much pervert as u r. No wife wud be doing this unless she enjoys it.
SHoaib said,
December 27, 2006 @ 10:56 pm
Guy, are u insane .. are your kids really urs …. how can u feel satisfied with ur wife being fucked by another guy .. man she is not ur GIRL FRIEND… SHE IS UR WIFE… u r telling you have a 23 year old DAUGHTER TELL ME HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF UR SON IN LAW WOULD WANT YOUR DAUGHTER TO BE FUCKED BY ANOTHER GUY AND U R SEEING HER DOO THAT … man i thought GAYS were crazy but i would say one thing you are totally rediculus….. I would say your wife is very unlucky person that you are her husband …..think about it once …..
shoaib
Anonymous said,
December 28, 2006 @ 5:46 am
wat an insane person is this man..is he a husband or a……u suck man u suck
Zaman said,
December 29, 2006 @ 7:50 pm
Hello Abhay,
I don’t know what to say. Some of the comments here are really stupid. To me, if you (you and ur wife) enjoyed is then there is no harm. Why this sick people complaining about sharing. I think everyone should admit that each person is unique. The way they think and they way they enjoy sex life. However, I would say this shouldn’t be a priority think for you . I don’t know how much of a family person you are. I have been in your kids situation and man it hurts (having a father with this fantasy), You should be very careful how, when and where you do these stuff. Your kids should never find out anything. Because a kid will never (most likely not) understand ur fantasy and stuff. I would suggest to focus more on family fun thing then fantasy. But who am I to tell you what to do, no one. Thats just what I think.
angel said,
December 31, 2006 @ 2:18 am
you’re all so crazy giving negative comments, such a practise is called swapping abroad and many couples are into it, it’s common. If both the hubby and wife want to do it together and share fantasies together, what’s the problem? They are not cheating each other. Now if the Hubby/Wife would have been doing without each others knowledge, that would have been ok to you assholes. It’s you guys who are insane. There’s no such thing as ‘right’ and “wrong” what ’should be” or what “shouldn’t be” when it comes to sex.
Anonymous said,
January 2, 2007 @ 1:05 am
go get a life
adi said,
January 3, 2007 @ 8:00 am
HMMMM ADULTERY AND SWAPPING IS HAPPENING IN INDIA THAN IN ANYOTHER EUROPEAN COUNTRY.IF YOU RETARDED ASSHOLES DONT KNOW THEN SHUT THE FUCK UP.IT HAPPENS WHEN YOU GO TO WORK AND ESPECIALLY IF U ARE IN A FUCKING STUPID ARRANGED INDIAN MARRIAGE.DONT SEE MOVIES AND TELEVISION SHOWS AND JUDGE INDIA.AND WHO THE HELL IS PREM LATHA OR WHOEVER .THIS DOCTOR BITCH NEEDS TO BE GANGBANGED FIRST.ME BEING INDIAN IN THE 21ST CENTURY IS THE WORST CURSE OF ALL.
adi said,
January 3, 2007 @ 8:09 am
LISTEN UP.OUR COUNTRY [OR YOUR COUNTRY CURRENTLY] IS FULL OF DARK SECRETS.IF YOU SEE AISHWARYA RAI ACTING LIKE A GOOD GIRL IN A MOVIE THEN THAT DOESNT MEAN SHE TRUTHFUL SHE GOT BANGED BY SALMAN KHAN ABSHEK AND ALMOST ALL STARS.AND HAVING SEX WITH DIFFERENT PEOPLE DOESNT PEOPLE IS NOT BAD YOU RETARDS.IN INDIA MEN CAN FUCK GIRLS BUT WOMEN ARE MADE TO STAY IN KITCHEN WALLS AND THIS IS THE FUCKING FACT THAT MAKES THEM TO FUCK OTHERS.this guys abhay is not bad or perverted he is expressing his fantasies and can you all prve it wrong by giving atleast one good reason.watch it retards coz your woman can be sleeping with your best friend right now as u read.and LET ME TELL YOU ABOUT WESTERN PEOPLE THEY HAVE THE GUTS TO TAKE THE TRUTH IN MOVIES AND SHOWS AND THAT DOESNT MAKE THEM BAD.IT IS ONLY IN INDIA WHERE PEOPLE GET TO KILL 38 FEMALE CHILDREN AND BURRY THEM AND do everything without anyones knowledge.DONT JUDGE OUR GREAT COUNTRY india BY MOVIES.COZ U ALL DONT KNOW ANYTHING.
Ashok Chaudhary said,
January 4, 2007 @ 4:38 am
Abhay,
Why don’t you become a peeping Tom? Just ask her to enjoy where you are sure that you can watch her (without her knowledge).