Sex Advice: I can’t touch my girl
Editor’s Note:- I hope this doesn’t happen even to my biggest enemy!
Q. I am living with a girl who wants to marry me. She has had sexual relations with other guys in the past. Now she does not want to get physical with me. Just before meeting me, she became religiously inclined and took pledge in front of her Guru to have sex only for kids. But I have regular sex urge. She wants to marry me but her candid confession about past and not allowing me to touch her also gives immense pressure to our relationship. I don’t know what to do. Please advice me.
Rag
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla:
Both of you are playing a game. She has her motive known only to her for remaining chaste after enjoying affairs. You are having fun playing a hero, rescuing a damsel in distress. It is certain that your compassion for her and your immense pleasure in not allowing you to touch her is not going to last long. Nothing prevents you from living with her as long as both of you are comfortable with the relationship however screwed it is. Both of you can always move on to your separate ways without rancour, that is, without hate or bitterness whenever the tensions build up.
abhi said,
October 18, 2006 @ 8:17 pm
Shit heads.. both u and ur GF.. she is fucking hypocrite, who had sex with n boys and now is repenting? Dude, get real and dump her asap.
wilbur said,
October 18, 2006 @ 10:31 pm
Hey dude… that gal of urs is the biggest hypocrite… fuck her.. or let her go fuck herself…. rememeber..bus, train aur ladki… dont waste ur time for a bitch like that… its like..billi 100 chuhe kha kar hajj ko chali….
jibur said said,
October 18, 2006 @ 10:40 pm
Hi please be careful she is a bitch
vishal said,
October 19, 2006 @ 12:23 am
this is th funniest thing ive ever heard…. an u r actually believing the crap shez telling u??
an whoz this amazing sex guru she visits…. he sounds fishy… for all u know, she must be screwing around with him… ha ha ha
Saracen said,
October 19, 2006 @ 12:28 am
Ditch The Bitch
simon said,
October 19, 2006 @ 1:23 am
wilbur is saying exactly rite
lolita said,
October 19, 2006 @ 3:04 am
Relationship is imposed both ways and it will be unwanted eventually. A relationship in this case will just be a victim of personal, independent hidden goals.
You have to be open and honest to what you seek & It seems you know so rather banging your heads to the walls - it would be good that you solve your personal goals & don’t stretch this issue further or fell into an unwanted relationship trap because you may not love it later or you will have to learn to love it.
vasant said,
October 19, 2006 @ 3:58 am
your gf must have realised her mistakes she done in the past, you must respect her decision dude, but the idea of having sex only to have children kinda pisses me off. now its up to you to decide either your love n respect for her or your sexual urge. if you love her forget the past and be with her and support her - she must know that you care for her and are sacrificing your pleasure for her, and who knows she may change her mind later after realising she is doing injustice to you and being too selfish.
and one more thing, you dont have to pay for others mistakes!!!! so what if others had fun and used her??? you dont have to be the one who will pick up others kachra? if you like playing hero up to you. if your touching her reminds her of the other dogs who done her b4 then she is not the one for you mate, go look elsewhere. its not that bhalaaii ka zamana nahi raha but its about having brains and not being a fool.
agar abhi bhi akal thikane nahi aya to go fuck yourself, tera kuch nahi ho sakta. chooloo bhar paani mein doob maro bhai.
Domain said,
October 19, 2006 @ 10:06 am
she is playing with u , she wants to know how pursuasive u can be or how far u are willing to stretch ……play the same game backwards …..say u visiting a female sex therapist and blah blah ……………oh ya till the bitch agrees to do it u can screw on the side wid others.She said she dun wanna have sex , she didn’t say u couldn’t ………..
Domain said,
October 19, 2006 @ 10:17 am
Dont do it, u ass! Dump her. You might contract AIDS or STDs
Hot Chap said,
October 19, 2006 @ 1:36 pm
its sounds like exact situtation i faced a year ago with my gf , but dude let me tell u Today i m like free bird , coz after so much of thinking i decided to leave her and to START a fresh life with new frnds around. Believer me Three Days were like hell for me , but from fourth day everything was normal and from 7 day onwards i started enjoyin. and Guess what Dude , after a month i Got a news that She got married to some another Guy who was just a simple frnd of her in my time.
Go Dude just go let her fuck herself , cum out of this scrap and see there;s lot more in ths world to be explore. … Cheer Up !!
Gaurav MUDGAL said,
October 19, 2006 @ 1:38 pm
Buddy,
If this is a true case, then I would suggest, give a tight slap to trhat girl and fuck her off, if you don’t someday she really would, and look she is this way , isn’t she?
larry Canada said,
October 19, 2006 @ 3:02 pm
Abe Lund kai gile baal ” RAAG” ,
You dont get the guls why you are marrying this fucking Rand , today she is pretending to be a saint after marriage she will say your cock is like a Punni ( baby dik ) then she will start fucking around with others .
So Dheele Lund ditch this Bitch otherwise put butter in your Arsh and fucked by her boobs or start collecting the money earned by her bitching .
Go get married some better one…..
Circuit samjha na isko
shaggyboy said,
October 19, 2006 @ 3:51 pm
What a DHAKAAN you are. Reading your comments, I wont be suprised she doesnt allow you to touch her, but still allows the whole bloody world to hump her. And yes mate, that guru of her …does sounds fishy. Be practical buddy ……Dump her before she dumps your life in and out.
LARRY said,
October 19, 2006 @ 4:51 pm
There is a loop hole in the clause, use it!! you can have sex for children…. so get vasectomy done secretly and kepp fucking her for rest of your life…. and you can say to her that you are having sex for only children….
Anonymous said,
October 19, 2006 @ 5:08 pm
watta loser…what do u want to do to her?..pray with her?…..lol..she fucks around with guys and then repents?…ask her if she has some STD or the big A….that could be a more plausbile reason for y she does not wanna have sex…
Anonymous said,
October 19, 2006 @ 5:15 pm
wow this is the most retarted shit i have ever heard.. dump that bitch like a bad bean burrito
Chori said,
October 19, 2006 @ 10:16 pm
She has HIV, so she is scared of giving it to you
jjj said,
October 21, 2006 @ 1:51 am
this is weird but this can happen tht i cum to know today
Max said,
October 22, 2006 @ 8:27 pm
Duuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuummmmmmmmmmmmmmppppppppppppppppppppp her !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Deva said,
October 23, 2006 @ 1:17 pm
hey dude,
this girl is playing safe. her pledge in front of the guru etc. doesn’t seem to be credible. she is just afraid that u might dump her after having sex like the other guys did. guess her brain has started working only now. but it is time for u to use ur brain. if u r a kind of guy who has enjoyed a number girls already… then it is ok… otherwise her past will certainly haunt u after the marriage.
Your friend said,
October 28, 2006 @ 12:36 pm
Do it as ur wish, Don’t take anyone’s advice, ur mistake in this is u have not mentioned anything about your relationship between that girl. If she is repenting, think about it. u tell the truth whether u had sex with girls or not. same way she didn’t realize when she was doing that, today she repents. WHY ?. All of us need a virgin WHY ?. r u a virgin ?. Why did she say that she had sex with others to you WHY ? findout. If your relationship with her is not so deep then give her a good advice and leave her. Don’t spoil your life for sacrifice.. That’ll be a big mistake, What gaurantees u that the girl to whom your going to marry in future is a virgin or not, she said the truth that’s why all these problems are created for u. This is your personel life, Don’t spread like this and take third opinion, It’s your life, You think and decide what to do… My suggestion is ” If she is really repenting and ready to live a new life with u, then go on man….. You have to forget everything about her past and even yours,… and lead a good life… Bye..
Mr SINGH said,
October 31, 2006 @ 10:19 pm
oi fuck your religon put some porn movie on and start licking her pussy and finger her and tell her to give you blow job then have sex and make babys… hahahah mah chode you dont even know how to turn a bitch on.
CrackHead said,
November 12, 2006 @ 11:19 pm
Do what Mr. Singh says cum on her face and then shove your unpolished BATA made leather boot up her ass and kick her out of your house immediately. May God bless you. Amen!!!
ALIENS said,
November 16, 2006 @ 5:47 am
dump her dude!! she’s playing with ya..
after fucking many guys, she’s suddenly playing sati savartee ??!!
forget her n getta life..