Sex Advice: How to revive my sex life?
Q. I was enjoying a romping sex life during the first two years of my marriage but after that my wife showed no sign of interest. I tried everything from oral, read books like Kamasutra, tried everything but nothing would please her. As a matter of fact, I started searching for sex outside my home and eventually landed with some call girls (I used protection). I know it’s wrong but what should I do to revive my sex life with my wife? Please help.
Mantri
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla:
Reading Kamasutra or other books on sex really do not provide solutions to the problem of frigidity of the wife. These books concentrate more on the technique of sex like postures which can be sustained by only by regular gymnasts and the books written more from the point of view of titillation forget the person for whose interest the whole exercise is being under taken. Oral sex as prescribed by some of these books actually puts most women off sex as they find it quite obnoxious and meaningless. Reading of sex manuals helps in enhancing the fun of sexual activity only when both the partners are interested in reading them. For helping your wife to get over her problem of frigidity you will have to pay more attention to her in order to understand its cause. You might have to woo her back by regular courtship instead of wasting your time on paid sex. You can also seek the help of a counselor for both of you, as frigidity is a common and serious problem of women just like erectile deficiency in me.
EXTREME ACTION said,
October 7, 2006 @ 8:33 am
NOTICE THE LAST LINE OF DEAR MS.LATA’S COMMENTS “JUST LIKE ERRECTILE DEFICIENCY IN ME” . HMM.. INTERESTING .ALWAYS SUSPECTED HER WITH HAVING A PENIS.
lethal said,
October 7, 2006 @ 12:32 pm
get rid of her
bhaskar said,
October 7, 2006 @ 1:52 pm
See she’s tryn to help man! Use your brains instead of thinking using ur lower head all the time! haha
ask ur wife and she will tell u every thing said,
October 8, 2006 @ 1:19 am
i suggest you ask and discuss this matter with YOUR wife as she must be expecting something more from you or she might be interested in some one else, as you both r hubby and wifi you both can always talk about ur secret crushs & fantisies with each other and pls try being a bit broad minded to the wifi as you were previous to her. m sure she will speak out her desires. and do let me know ur results
Toocool said,
October 14, 2006 @ 4:20 am
If u r spending ur hard earned money on bitches just spend those money on spy n u will get every information on ur lovely faithfull or UNFAITHFULL WIFE
CrackHead said,
November 12, 2006 @ 11:29 pm
Dude get a life. Your wife didn’t lose interest in sex she lost interest in you. But you can use this for your benefit just put a spy cam in your bed room and them when you come in the evening it will record a porn movie with your wife and neighbor and you can sell it on ebay and make lots of money. Use that money to get hookers.
Juss enjoy your fucked up life. Holy fuck.