Wife-swapping Indians spill the beans!

Payal Rohatgi and Siddharth Koirala from the movie Fun - Can be dangerous sometimes related to an article on wife-swapping in India

Fun - Can be Dangerous Sometimes? Certainly not, insist quite a few men and women in India who are regularly switching partners to add a dash of sexual fantasy to their marital lives.

There’s nothing furtive about what they do. Gone are the days when indecent proposals were made in lieu of lucre. Now spouse is spice. Wives change hands with a style statement.

“It was getting far too boring to meet up with friends at a party and drive away with the most suitable companion for the night. Far from being a raunchy adventure, it was turning into tedious and predictable chore,” says Kapil Mehra, a garment exporter who often swaps wife Radhika for other women.

Mehra and like-minded couples are constantly devising new ways to make the game more interesting.

Sample this variation for example. The swingers book a venue where no eyebrows are raised about sex romps. It could be a posh hotel or a farmhouse. Private residences are also used, but sparingly. Next they hire the services of a ‘qawwal’ who keeps the gathering in good humour with songs full of lewd lyrics. Fillers in the party are usually sex-plicit jokes cracked by the chosen couple of that particular night. They personally handpick all the jokes.

Once everyone is in the mood, close dancing with different ladies follows. The rocking affair comes to an end when couples throw their car keys into a bowl. The women come out in a parade and pick the keys that catches their fancy. All that remains then is to drive off with the owner of those keys!

“It’s normal to be a little inhibited when you start. But once you get into the flow of things, it becomes very easy to mingle with all the men,” says Chanda Agarwal, the wife of a Delhi-based businessman.

She even admits that flirting over the dining table is fun. “I remember the time when I was passing around the tandoori chicken. Breast or leg, I asked this gentleman as I leant over. He sure got the hint!” she guffaws.

“Contrary to what many people may think wife-swapping is serious business. You have to give it all the time and attention that it deserves. Otherwise it could end up becoming a very lousy experience. Only when you begin well, will it end well,” quips Subhash Chugh, a transport contractor.

Editor’s Note:- Friend’s, anyone amongst you has experience with wife-swapping or if you know anyone in your circle of influence indulging in this sexciting game, please do let us know. Thanks in advance.


  1. s&s said,

    July 30, 2005 @ 12:49 am


    We are a couple who engage in swapping often. My name is Suhail and my wife Sophia is no less than an angel. We have been doing this for a year now but mostly in the Atlanta where we live. Recently, however, we went to india and had a mind boggling sexperience.

    While in my in-laws house in Jaipur, India, my wife was able to convince her hot sister Nazia and her boyfriend to swap with us. Nazia, like Sophia, has a voluptous body with full curves. I have been eyeing her since my wedding but never got to get close to her because of the physical distance. But that night when my wife’s parents were out, we started playing strip poker with Nazia and her boyfriend. My wife is not very good at poker and was the first one to get down to her panties. Nazia’s boyfrned was very excited at this and could barely control his growing erection. At this point, I took the initiative and starting kissing my sister-in-law. This was the last straw that led me and Nazia into the other room leaving Sophia behind with Nazia’s boyfriend. I had the night of my life. Later on all of us joined in a mini orgy and literally slept over one another.

    The only thing I can say after this is: Wife swapping might be fun but swapping your sister-in-law for your wife beats everything.

  2. soniya said,

    July 30, 2005 @ 9:11 am

    Hi all,

    In our locality there were two couples living opposite to each other. Both had children also. Their parents are staying at their respective native villages. Here, both the men were fucking other man’s wife without each other’s knowledge. Both the wives were knowing this fact, but they allowed to continue it as if they don’t know anything!! Actually they were enjoying fucking by opposite man. This continued for many days. Slowly it became known to neighbours and ultimately both the men knew the matter. None of them were in a position to complain as all of them were indulging in this activity very much knowingly. So, they continued fucking each other wives even after that. Finally, they decided to swap their wives permanently along with their children!!!! This was fantastic, as swaping children along with wives, was an idea beyond one’s imagination. In our society, still none of us is able to digest this fact and amused how they would have been able to convince their families for this act??!!! Both the men’s parents have got new children while both the ladies’ parents have got new son-in-laws. For them house to be landed at is also swapped while their visit to our city.

  3. Pankaj said,

    July 31, 2005 @ 7:43 pm

    Swap is a real pleasure when done with long known couples. We were watching so called anara’s videos together when my sis in law and her hubby came. It was mere coincidence but we started discussing sex and sisters came in mood. So proposal of swap was approved by them and thats hoe we did that and let me tell you…its worth trying since u feel so comfortable and its fun watching your lovely spouse being enjoying like this…

  4. Pankaj said,

    August 2, 2005 @ 5:09 pm

    Seeing your wife fucked by another guy is a real fun. It happened with us when we went to Australia with a friend couple. His wife is a real hot thing. we were very frank. Discussing about swaping. He said, you want it. I said yes. We planned and in night gave drinks to our wives. Saw blue film together. made the ladies nude. made them hot and exchanged. it was wonderfull.

  5. prateek said,

    August 3, 2005 @ 4:59 am

    My cousin Anita is very well shaped and beautiful. One day my friend and me were coming with her. My friend was sitting with driver in front seat. He saw me fondling her body. Next day he told me about his relation with his lovely cousin. One day when nobody was at home I called Anita and my friends to have fun. We fucked our cousins and then I suggested him to see each other making love. everytime we did it we came more closer. After 2 months when I proposed him for swaping, he agreed and cousins were also ready after a lot of discussion but only for touching. But all thing happened after that. Its a real pleasue…….we are planning to marry each other’s cousin now

  6. Shah said,

    August 3, 2005 @ 7:48 am


    I don’t beleive how u guyz cud swap ur darling wives, whom u love very much. How do u people tolerate ur spouses in some other person’s arms? It’s really disgusting to let ur spouse go into another’s arms. Shame on u guyz.

  7. Tejinder said,

    August 3, 2005 @ 10:57 am

    Ours was an awesome experience indeed. We are both doctors and were visting friends at Chicago some years back. The couple we spent a week with are doctors in USA (Indians). At night while watching a XX channel we both guys got excited. We were sitting on the carpet with our wives. This friend suggestred that we switch to a XXX channel. The ladies did object slightly, but , under the influence of martini, they gave in. Once aroused we started petting our respective wives- and soon…. clothes were off and the act started. Our wives got extremely horny and started eyeing the ‘other’ male! Everybody gave in and we had a nightlong romp on the living room floor. We have now planned to get together next month when the couple comes visiting India. Anybody else interested? Contact at [email protected]

  8. Rahul said,

    August 6, 2005 @ 7:38 pm

    I am 32 years old male and my wife Rashi is 26. She has a fantastic figure.We use to discuss about swapping a lot but had no courage to talk to anyone else for result. One day when we went for a tour with a couple friend, I asked Rashi to wear very deep neck t-shirt to seduce my friend. on the way also we talked about swaping in movie “Ajnabi”
    He inderstood my idea. In night both ladies were preparing and serving drinks. As per our plan, Rashi bent and gave drink to my friend showing her boobs in her deep neck. He really got mad. we asked ladies to have some drinks. My friends wife Priyanka did not want to drink but anyhow my wife and her hubby convinced her.when both ladies drunk twice, they were uncontrollable. My friend made his wife nude and I undressed Rashi. Then we exchanged our wivies. Even in intoxication Priyanka screamed-Bhaiya, dont do this to me. but I could not stop cause he had already inserted in my wife.I started fucking her hard and shown her her hubby over Rashi. Then she said nothing and agreed for a good fucking……..Next day they were agreed without drinks

  9. Shilpa said,

    August 6, 2005 @ 11:00 pm

    Its not uncomon these days. I have seen many indian community involving in swapping in NY US.Its high time to behave in a double standard way.Why not accpt the fact.Hiding wont definitely help.

  10. Junglee said,

    August 7, 2005 @ 5:43 pm

    You are not a bitch and I am not a dog! And marriage is not all about sex. However, What’s next, isn’t there an end to it?

  11. Zohar Dahodwala said,

    August 10, 2005 @ 10:02 am

    Well I and my wife Nafisa ( Chapli Nafisa) stay in Byculla Mumbai. We were very reluctant about this whole thing. Then one day a friend of mine from Delhi came tovisit us with his wife. He saw my wife and wentt ga ga over her. In the night when we were boozing he tried to catch my wife’s boobs. I saw that but I did not complain as I thought that if he can sleep with my wife then nothing like it so that I can also screw his wife. He understood my plan. Nafisa was battered that night and I too had ny share of screwing my firends wife.

  12. Nihit said,

    August 10, 2005 @ 6:32 pm

    My friend Aditya is veery close to me because we use to fuck each other’s ass. Last month we met after 11 years. Both are married now. His wife Sasha is 24 and my wife Ruchi is 26.we remembered our older days. He proposed for swaping. His wife is soo…..cute that I immidietely agreed. But ladies were not agree. They fought with us for 3 days but after that they were ready to get nude in front of each other and get fucked by their hubbies only. We fucked our wives on the same bed and came closer.Suddenly as per plan we changed ourselves. they screamed a lot but we forcefully fucked them. After that we were able to manage all and then did it again and again for 5 days. then Aditya and his wife flew away for NY.

  13. Raj said,

    August 13, 2005 @ 12:41 pm

    You bunch of assholes. How can you share your wives with someone else !!!!

  14. Raman said,

    August 13, 2005 @ 11:35 pm

    I really doubt if any of the experiences listed above are indeed true !!! I am sure many of us may want to have this experience but I do have reservations about how much of this is true. For example the story by Sonia ( comment # 2) absolutely seems a exaggageration ..

  15. ravinder said,

    August 16, 2005 @ 3:31 am

    I used to fantasize abt swapping ,but in country like ours being a dificult to even think.It happened a few dayys back one of my friend visited our place .He is very close to us and have a good rappo with my wife regarding joking and is vey frank with her.We made a plan to have drinks in night . My wife prepared some good chicken and we started at around 9pm.He insisted my wife to have a small peg of whisky which upon my approval she agreed .By the time we had a couple of drinks every one of us was enjoying.My wife was wearing a rapround and a top and up to now she had two pegs and fully enjoying the drink session.I noticed that my friend was peeping around her boobs which i felt very erotic.We had some more drinks and now i felt that my wife was stammering in her speech.The rap round around was getting bit high and we could see the waxed legs of my wife,he commented abt the beutiful legs of my wife which i happily appereciated.now we all three were enjoying talking and he started touching my wife legs and buttocks,intialy she got embarrassed but as all were in mood so it went normally.My wife had to go to toilet and she told me to accompany her as she was not able to go alone (due to drinks).my friend told that if i dont mind he can accompany my wife for which i had no objections.he held the hand and let her to the toilet,as my wife couldnt walk properly she was almost in his lap.i noticed he was pressing her boobs for which my wife was enjoying full.after toilet they were back and now wife said tat lets move to bed room as she is feeling sleepy.we all moved to bed room and my friend insisting that he want to sleep with us.so we all were on bed with myself in centre ,i strted caressing my wife which she responded fully .after some time i realized that my wife is at centre as my friend had moved to other side ,now both of us enjoying my wife her rap round and top were out .We had a great fuck with my friend fucking my wife twice and myself once.In the morning evey thing was normal but i cannot forget tat nigh….great night.

  16. Sanjeev said,

    August 16, 2005 @ 7:38 am

    I am sure out of 10 9 stories are lie making full of ours feeling that unnecessary wasted time in reading that

  17. sahil said,

    August 28, 2005 @ 1:32 pm

    if the guys are so fond of seeing their wives fucked by other men I am sure a lot of guys including me will be interested in taking a dip in the holy crevice. These guys are bluffing.

  18. samarth said,

    August 28, 2005 @ 9:00 pm

    im from bombay and i have been to a wife swapping party myself … so i will not deny that something like this does happen.

  19. Sufian said,

    September 7, 2005 @ 9:50 pm

    AH! These bullshit kinda fellows..they actually are not men they r basically sufferin frm erectile dysfunction ….hijray salay! begharutt!

  20. love said,

    September 12, 2005 @ 5:38 am

    this happens in real life, but all the given stories r not true.i`ve heard that there r special get togethers in new delhi in big hotels for this kinda stuff. poor sick people, i feel sorry for them…….

  21. Pankaj said,

    September 12, 2005 @ 8:10 pm

    Sorry? You need to know the true meaning of love to liberate yourself sexually. Love is beyond monopolising each others body…

  22. Ahmedabad Swingers said,

    October 1, 2005 @ 6:58 am

    I and my wife have been married for 10 yrs now. After such a long time of being together sex becomes sort of mundane and a routine thing for u with ur spouse. v r into swapping for last 2-3 yrs now. and let me tell u overall it has been gr8 fun (of course there were few bad experiences too). and the most imp thing is that this alternative lifestyle has made our own sex lives much more spicy and enchanting. whenever v r in bed together v start talking of some guy/gal whom v know in this circuit and the fantasy itself makes both of us turned on a lot. take my word for it, swapping is fun but at the same time u need to hv utmost trust on ur spouse as whatever u r doing is just to add some more spice in ur own sex lives. its been scientifically proved that except for human beings all the mammals have many sexual partners during their life span. for v human beings its considered as a taboo which has been created by the society. that too also has been created by our ancestors with certain logic in their mind. main thing is hving multiple sexual partners can create a lot of personal hygiene problems. so all cpls out there interested in swapping, pls ensure that the opp cpl is absolutely hygenic. then things wud b much more fun. somebody has commented that whoever is doing this are perverts and just b’coz the hubby is not able to satisfy his wife, he likes to see his wife being fucked by some other guy. let me tell u this is not the fact. its just that u r being selfless and letting ur wife hv a varied kind of experience and by doing this u urself start hving an increased libido. in this last 3-4 yrs, v hv never forced each other to sleep with somebody whom v dont like. if my wife doesnt like the opp guy then v dont go further even if i hv like the female and vice versa. its not the no of cpls with whom u swap that counts, its just the idea which makes u more excited. v r into this for the rest of our life but at the same time r not desperate for it. if v happen to find the right cpl(s) then v go ahead or else v r happy as v r.

  23. me2 said,

    October 23, 2005 @ 10:14 pm

    even thinking of fucking someone’s wife gives so much erection. tho i m nt sure it wd be happenning like this but one thing i can say that this world is full of surprises. a person of my vicinity really fucks his own cousin(father’s brother’s daughter). she is almost 23yrs younger to him and resides with him for schooling. obviously, i dont see it is acceptable but it is. this i know as i have also joined them 3-4 times but not regularly. so wife sharing may be the fact.

  24. anand said,

    October 28, 2005 @ 11:30 am

    all these people who talk about wifeswapping are fantasizing

  25. philosopher said,

    December 31, 2005 @ 7:40 pm

    All this is Bull. I believe that most if not all the stories on this page are lies/fantasies. The car keys story is completely fake. I think its some kind of urban legend. I have been hearing it since I was a teenager. If at all these things do happen, I guess they happen only in the circles of rich and spoilt people and not ordinary everyday people. Maybe the actors and actresses are doing it (kabir and protima bedi comes to mind). My advice to couples is to take these stories for what they are-fantasies of some people who are desperate to find signs of life in their mundane world.

  26. sam said,

    January 1, 2006 @ 7:29 pm

    NO this is not bullshit. It is true and it happens in most towns in india. infact it all started when the vcrs invaded india. for non believers, they can check up adult friend finder and see for themselves.
    happy new year to all

  27. nish said,

    January 2, 2006 @ 6:40 am

    no this is not….me and my wife have been looking for the similar couples from quite some time now…and have been one the verge of doin in …have even met some couples…so i guess we will be in the ring soon.

  28. DI said,

    January 2, 2006 @ 4:29 pm

    Shilpa if you are into cam to cam or any other couple interrested in Cam to cam please send mail to us and fix time !

  29. Evil in Disguise said,

    January 4, 2006 @ 8:18 pm

    We r so overpowered by the ethics of society and culture, we ve forgotten our individuality. There is nothing wrong in swaping or group sex as long both the partners are fine with, Whover says its disgusting is just jealous. have fun !!!!

  30. man said,

    January 8, 2006 @ 6:05 pm

    you people are really sad have you not considered that you are slowly but surely destroying your society!! and yourselves

  31. BnH said,

    January 9, 2006 @ 5:09 am

    dont worry we are also sailing on the same boat and let tell u that its good than spouses cheating on each other and havin xtramartial life ….swinging is far better than this and especially better for husband who ,after marriage,go on fuking “randies’ or prosses while think that their wife shlud be ’satisawitri’ and shlud not even talk with the ‘guy’ in the neighbour…

    We are couple from Chandigarh,Punjab,and are 33/31 married,and r into this wonderful life of swingers 4 more than 5 yrs now….with 6-7 swinging sexpereinces.
    If u are a married couple,and are from in or around
    Candigrh , and if u are really interested to have swinger sexpirence with us , then pz contact us at [email protected]
    We can also c eachother on cam @ yahoo so for that u can add us at ballynharleen @ yahoo messenger.
    Plz note that we also host couples in our home..
    so if u beleive in true couples than contact us…we will give u our mobile once we c eachother on yahhoo ‘live’…
    oh yes we are “Bally(he) and Harleen(she)

  32. Exotic Guy said,

    May 23, 2006 @ 5:45 am

    Hi Swingers.
    This is awesome. I love the very concept. I always wonder how one person can live with only one spouse. Life will be boring. Think if the spouse is a bad in sex. One has to live with it rest of his/her life. That’s bad. I love to share my wife. As mush as I like verity, I would my wife enjoy the same. You only live once. Enjoy life and let others enjoy as well. There is nothing like the pleasure of sex. I can’t even explain it. I believe no one can. So guys. Do what you guys are doing. If I get a girl of my type, I’ll definitely share my car key.
    Beautiful Girls looking for a long-term relationship please do drop me a line. Who knows, may be I have been waiting for you. [email protected]

  33. rakesh said,

    May 25, 2006 @ 9:04 am


  34. RDBP said,

    September 5, 2006 @ 1:14 pm

    All the comments mentioned above are not bluff. Me and my wife are into swapping with two of my friends for the last 16 years. Let me assure you all the swapping increases your confidence in your spouses. swapping has saved many a marriages and has added spice to life. Any couple on the verge of seperation should try swapping. I guarantee it will save the marriage. Swapping has added thrill into our married life. Please try it. You have only once to live. So make merry.

  35. dfd said,

    September 19, 2006 @ 3:43 am

    all these are bull shits,total lie

  36. karteik said,

    November 12, 2006 @ 6:54 am

    Slowlwy urban india is becoming like the west.

  37. raman said,

    December 10, 2006 @ 4:10 am

    nice to rd abt wife swapping. i also wish and fanatasise abt the same , but never got a chance . still looking for one.

  38. lulu said,

    January 5, 2007 @ 10:05 pm

    Who says Indians don’t have imagination. Tell them to visit this page. Good looking lies guys.