Question. I am a 22-year-old woman. For the past couple of years, I have been fantasising in order to deal with my sexual urges. During this time, I resist the urge to urinate which somehow makes it more pleasurable. This has turned into a problem as I subconsciously try to control my bladder each time I am aroused. I think this has led to a urinary problem. What do I do? I can’t stop now.
Answer. You cannot get a urinary problem this way. Carry on. Maybe you can try the age-old method of running a tap of water while trying to urinate. It does the trick often.