Question. I am a 30-year-old single man. My neighbour is a married woman and is very hot. She dries her clothes on a railing between our apartments. I saw her underwear drying on the railing and could not control myself. While I was stealing the underwear, she caught me. She has complained to her husband, who is now threatening to lodge a police complaint. But he cannot get me arrested for fantasising about his wife because my fantasies are mine. How do I deal with the husband?
Answer. Stop thinking about her underwear. Meet the husband and apologise to him. Tell him you do not know what made you act the way and promise never to do it again. Stealing is not fantasy.