Question. I am an 18-year-old virgin. My boyfriend likes to lick my breasts very often and he wants to insert his finger into my vagina. But as soon as he starts the act, I suddenly get a severe pain and very soon, his mood changes. Is there any way that I can satisfy him without feeling the pain?
Answer. Apply a small quantity of xylocaine gel 2% in and around the vaginal opening. Wait for 15 minutes and then wipe it off. You will not experience pain then.