Question. I have many male friends, and I hug them sometimes, but I don’t feel comfortable when they touch me. As a teenager, I experimented with a lot of things to sexually stimulate myself. Many of these things were unhygienic but I was curious and because masturbation is so secretive, I did it even more. However, I have never inserted anything in my body. I have this fear, you could call it a phobia, about penetrative sex. I find the male organ repulsive. So much so that I doubt if I will ever let my husband inside me. I can’t even think of birthing a child. Help!
Answer. You seem to have developed very wrong feelings and ideas. The vagina has been extensively studied. It is naturally made to stretch to accommodate the male organ. Also it is one of the most hygienic parts of the body. Acid cells present in the vaginal tract keep it clear of all unwanted matter. Lab tests do not show any germs inside it. In fact, the mouth has more germs. Seek psychiatric help to overcome your phobia.
Comments (2)
on: September 13, 2011 8:52 PM | Reply
ek bar tongue se lick karwa,uske baad sari ceeze dalni bhool jayegi. tongue hi tonue yaad aaegi.
on: September 13, 2011 11:09 PM | Reply
Beautifully explained.This is in fact a very common phobia among girls which has always been overcome at the right moment :p Don't worry you will too. Just wait for the right moment and even before you realize you will have overcome it. Cheers.