Question. I am 27 years old and my wife is 26. Our five-year-long affair culminated into marriage three months back. We had sex before marriage and we enjoyed a lot for the first two-three years. But by the fourth and the fifth year she had lost interest in it. After marriage, she has completely switched off. I try foreplay and express more love than before but she says she is satisfied with her sex life and stops me every time. These days, my sexual desire has increased a lot and I masturbate twice a day. How can I increase her sexual desire or decrease mine? I don't want to fight with her, as I love her a lot. Please help.
Answer. You need to calmly talk to her. Get your wants listened to. Also, listen to and understand her side of the story. Does she have orgasms? If not, why not? Involve yourself in work and strive to better yourself. Masturbating occasionally is okay, but not twice a day.
Comments (8)
on: August 25, 2011 7:15 PM | Reply
mam ,
i love to watch porn movies ,my friends told me to avoid porn movies as these would disturbed my studies, i followed there advice , but now i realise my marks are getting declined day by day,
when i watched porn movies earlier, though i know its not good, but my concentration level grows very positvely and that time i got very good marks,
i want your advice as to whether i should watch porn movies or not....
on: August 26, 2011 1:07 AM | Reply
could it be that she is seeing someone else? like someone she was into before you guys met?
on: August 26, 2011 3:04 AM | Reply
Presumably she lost interest because she isn't excited as you both had three years regular sex before marriage. In order to fuel your sex life, make some changes in your sex life, like changing your places, go for a wild sex, or threesome, may be she is more interested to see another cock. Let me know if she is interested :P
on: August 26, 2011 10:19 AM | Reply
Try a threesome!
on: August 26, 2011 3:42 PM | Reply
shaadi se phale he itni practics kar lete ho....jab performance ka time aata hai tab performance de nai jati.......both of u should take a break .....
on: August 26, 2011 5:42 PM | Reply
Answer. -> Just try pheromones.this will work out for sure!! :) ..to know more about it google it!
on: August 26, 2011 10:01 PM | Reply
Watching porn is not sin or crime. Every one dose it. But make sure that you will not cross your limits
on: August 28, 2011 3:13 AM | Reply
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