Question. I’m a 36-year-old unmarried woman. I am in a relationship with a man. Last year I got pregnant, following which I underwent an abortion as we weren’t ready for the marriage. After the abortion I didn’t get periods for seven months. The gynaecologist put me on progesterone and estrogen doses to create withdrawal and force start the periods. During this time I developed multiple fibroids. I had to undergo the procedure of hysteroscopy to get rid of fibroids. Three months later, I finally got my periods again. Now that everything is back on track, I am suffering from a no libido situation. I have no urge to have intercourse or even masturbate. What could have gone wrong? It has put severe strain on my relationship and I am miserable. Is it all over for me? Please advice?
Answer. Yes, it has been tough for you but the worst is over. Since you have conceived once, it is possible for you to do it again. Do not worry, you libido will return slowly. Spend time with your partner just feeling each other at all places. Kiss when both of you are comfortable. Caress each others’ genital parts and after some sessions try intercourse.
Comments (4)
on: August 10, 2011 6:01 PM | Reply
this is the worst case scenario and as the editor said that the worst is over!! yes u have seen the worst and now only good will happen so be happy..and never forget that when ever we fiddle with nature the latter slaps us back...
anyways be ready for a new begining...
on: August 10, 2011 10:28 PM | Reply
the worst is over. You libido will return in some period of time. My wife had a similar situation & it took almost a year . If you want to know more email us.
on: August 10, 2011 11:14 PM | Reply
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Cheers....
on: August 11, 2011 5:25 AM | Reply
biaatch - get married ASAP before boobs sag like wet clothes hung on rope.... this is the god's way of telling you FUCK U when u kill an innocent unborn. Cant u fucking use condom or u bloody sucked it up ...biaatch !!