Question. I am a 21-year-old girl and I have been attracted to girls since childhood. Three years ago, I got physical with my then best friend. Now I am attracted to my current best friend and feel like getting physical with her. But she is normal. These feelings disturb me a lot. How do I get rid of this abnormality? Please help.
Answer. What you are feeling are termed as lesbian tendencies. You have to decide whether you wish to pursue them or would like to be mainly heterosexual, but still fantasise about girls. These days, lesbianism is considered normal and an alternate sexuality.
Comments (15)
on: September 9, 2010 1:10 PM | Reply
I think you should consult a councilor or a shrink. They are very easy to consult & not very expensive. @ doctor:- just because lesbianism is getting common does mean we have to encourage it, especially when some one is confused.
on: September 9, 2010 6:19 PM | Reply
if u have a guy friend, make him closer and try to be physical with him, you will get rid of lesbian tendencies after that.
on: September 9, 2010 7:49 PM | Reply
I think you are strongly homosexual and there's nothing wrong with that.
Nothing wrong at all.
Don't consult a doctor, you are perfectly fine. Just find yourself a suitable partner.
Don't let anybody put you down because you are different. There are many lesbians around, and some of them stay hidden for a lifetime, which is a pathetic experience.
And be happy to be a lesbian, don't stay inside the closet, don't feel miserable. You are as normal as anybody else.
Also do the explore the possibility that you may be a bisexual.
And homosexuality is not a disease or an abnormality, its just a lifestyle, or a personal preference.
Feel absolutely free to follow your heart about this. You have every right to dictate the gender of the person you go to bed with.
Don't let anyone else convince you otherwise.
on: September 9, 2010 8:28 PM | Reply
Fundamentally, Lesbians are thirsty creatures who haven't had the fortune of experiencing the feeling of a real man's real penis in their vaginas.
The best way to get rid of these feelings is to let a few capable men -and not just a single man- fuck your vagina vigorously, to give you a taste of the penis.
Once you've experienced a real penis reciprocating in your vagina, your lesbian feelings will evaporate.
on: September 10, 2010 1:33 AM | Reply
hey bhagwan yeh gay kya kam the jo yeh laundiyo ko bhi aapas me hi marwana hai,arrey chudbaili ladkiyo k paas choot hoti usme danda dalna parta hai wo danda laundo ke paas hota hai.samjh gyi chudbaili
on: September 10, 2010 2:43 AM | Reply
Why do u not want to be attracted to girls. There is nothing wrong with it.
You may slowly get out of it and later be with men only. Say you dont get out of it. So what!!! its the fucking 21st Century gurl, have fun and live ur life.
A guy will definately break ur heart, a girl never will.
I speak from experience. No matter how and why i broke off the girl always felt men are bastards, even if they broke off with me.
on: September 10, 2010 2:57 AM | Reply
Lesbian relations are common now a days.its allowed in india also.
Even society also cant complain against you. you can enjoy with your girlfreind freely anywhere, anytime. you can try 69(licking each others PUSSY) with your girlfreind. but please dont forget to upload your LESBIAN SEX PHOTOS/VIDEO CLIPS ON our DEBONAIRBLOG.COM..
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on: September 10, 2010 3:48 AM | Reply
Get yourself fucked by a strong man. Once he will insert you, the pleasure of gettin fucked will make you normal
on: September 10, 2010 10:22 AM | Reply
D-b is right, these two guys above are morons.
on: September 10, 2010 10:28 AM | Reply
My Ex-Wife is lesbian. She had similar relation during her teens. Her orthodox parent advised to hide all and things would change after marriage. Soon she posted her profile and I fell for her smart, pretty 'n attractive women she is. I dated her for few month; but she faked her feeling each time. The marriage happen and had sex life etc.. But soon it was like two men in the room. Like we both get excited watching a women, both are aggressive etc..One day she told me the truth. The more she faked; more she strongly got thoughts of women. That haunted hers and drives her crazy. Depressed, she said she wants help, she wanted to feel like regular women. We went to reputed psychiatrist and counselor; for few months. But nothing seems to have help. Eventually we both divorced.Both were single past few years and busy in our world. Slowly I got remarried and she is in live-in with a women. I've no ill feeling towards her. She always had a strong maternal instinct. So recently i donated her my sperms and they are now raising a kid.
on: September 10, 2010 12:51 PM | Reply
i honestly think there is nothing wrong with homosexuality , at the end of the day it is your life and if being with a girl makes you happier than that is more appropriate than suffocating yourself by forcing a guy on yourself.
on: September 10, 2010 8:11 PM | Reply
Don't see anything wrong in this. Its perfectly fine as long as you don't get addicted to it. Its fine, even after your marriage, if this keeps you happy. But anything beyond limit or control is poison
on: September 11, 2010 12:20 PM | Reply
hi this is dr anjali i was also clear these types of cases every day i wil definetly.
on: September 28, 2010 9:22 PM | Reply
do whatever makes you happy girl.. its your happiness after all.. :) and please don't listen to morons who suggest you need a man.. happy life ahead..!! cheers girl!!
on: October 28, 2010 12:47 AM | Reply
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