Question. I am a 21-year-old woman. My friends say that they often masturbate while watching porn. I am confused because I believed that only men can masturbate. How do women masturbate? Can a woman lose her virginity via masturbation? Kindly reply.
Answer. Women have a clitoris which is equivalent of the penis in the male. When it is stimulated, they experience sexual pleasure and often achieve an orgasm. If an object (like a finger) is inserted in the vagina, then the hymen will split. However, she will continue to remain a virgin so long as she does not have sex. Unfortunately, there is a widespread belief that an intact hymen indicates virginity. This is not true.
Comments (8)
on: March 12, 2010 11:05 PM | Reply
Common at 21 u wud hav bed-thrusted 1000 times by now in ur life... sure u've experienced orgasm or at least close to it.
I beg to defer with the Editor cos a hymen split is split how long will we hear granny stories hymen splits by cycling, joging, sports etc etc... common girls drop it! We all know ur fingering or fuckin around habits! Grow up and cheer up ... hey we have grown up to accept the fact but still !!! decent good girls are decent good girls no matter how many gen-next and 3Gs and 4Gs keep comin no substitute for good decent homely girls.
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on: March 13, 2010 1:28 AM | Reply
wtf..you're 21 and haven't jacked off??
I've seen 14 yr olds do it..Just stick your finger in your cunt you dumb bitch
on: March 13, 2010 6:06 AM | Reply
Female masturbation techniques include a woman stroking or rubbing her vulva, especially her clitoris, with her index and/or middle fingers. Sometimes one or more fingers may be inserted into the vagina to repeatedly stroke its frontal wall where the g-spot is located.[13] Masturbation aids such as a vibrator, dildo or Ben Wa balls can also be used to stimulate the vagina and clitoris. Many women caress their breasts or stimulate a nipple with the free hand, if these are receptive areas for sexual stimulation. Anal stimulation is also enjoyed by some. Lubrication is sometimes used during masturbation, especially when penetration is involved, but this is not universal and many women find their natural lubrication sufficient.
Common positions include lying on back or face down, sitting, squatting, kneeling or standing. In a bath or shower a female may direct tap water at her clitoris and vulva. Lying face down one may use the hands, one may straddle a pillow, the corner or edge of the bed, a partner's leg or some scrunched-up clothing and "hump" the vulva and clitoris against it. Standing up a chair, the corner of an item of furniture or even a washing machine can be used to stimulate the clitoris through the labia and clothing. Some masturbate using only pressure applied to the clitoris without direct contact, for example by pressing the palm or ball of the hand against underwear or other clothing.
In the 1920s, Havelock Ellis reported that turn-of-the-century seamstresses using treadle-operated sewing machines could achieve orgasm by sitting near the edge of their chairs.[14]
Women can sexually stimulate themselves by crossing their legs tightly and clenching the muscles in their legs, creating pressure on the genitals. This can potentially be done in public without observers noticing. Thoughts, fantasies, and memories of previous instances of arousal and orgasm can produce sexual excitation. Some women can orgasm spontaneously by force of will alone, although this may not strictly qualify as masturbation as no physical stimulus is involved.[15][16]
Sex therapists will sometimes recommend that female patients take time to masturbate to orgasm, especially if they have not done so before.
on: March 13, 2010 1:09 PM | Reply
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on: March 13, 2010 1:50 PM | Reply
its highly unfortunate that girls come here asking questions only to be misguided by these learned editors!wht is virginity in a girl if not for the hymen??an intact hymen may not indicate virginty but lack of hymen is sure as hell not a proof of virginity either.girl ur hymen is ur virginity and this has been the belief for 1000s of years amongst the chinese, the christians and most other religions of the world and it doesnt matter what these half-baked english educated editors of debonairblog have to say.
on: March 13, 2010 5:10 PM | Reply
//How do women masturbate?//
well, I can predict that number of comments in this thread will touch at least 50 !!!
on: March 13, 2010 7:56 PM | Reply
The poster Raghu who was criticising the definition of virginity needs to get his head examined. The answer is completely factual and definition of virginity as per science is the lack of experiencing sexual intercourse. Don't bring some stone age religious ideas about the need for a hymen to prove virginity. This is a liberal and progressive forum where men love to gawk and appreciate the beauty and grace of Indian women who are being liberated after years of oppression by chauvinists. Take your religious discourse some place else like on Aastha TV where no one will bother to watch your crap.
on: March 17, 2010 6:14 PM | Reply
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