Question. I am a 25-year-old virgin girl. Sometimes, while studying, I get a strong urge to get physical with someone and I can’t stop myself from taking a pillow between my thighs. At times, I get aroused in the middle of the night when there’s no reason whatsoever. My friend told me that doing this can break my hymen and harm my virginity. Is that true? Please help.
Answer. You are only satisfying your sexual urge. It is perfectly safe and your hymen will not split if you do not insert a finger or an object in your vagina. Even if the hymen gets split, it is only when you have intercourse that you lose your virginity.
Comments (17)
on: June 26, 2009 6:39 PM | Reply
hi sweetie, your body is demanding personal attention.Your strong urge of having sex is quite obvious with galz of your age.Looks you are very much worried about your virginity (Hymen Seal). Real fact is, most of even teen galz wont be having Hymen becoz not of having sex or fingering or putting some other object in vagina, every gal who is active participant in sports r any physical acitivty like bicycling.So stop worrying about that.Even your future partner will be convinced of this.
Try to enjoy more pleasure by rubbing your pussy lips and clitoris with your thumb or fingers.It gives you much relaxed feeling. If you get a chance to have intercourse with any guy, make sure you demand him to use condom,it helps you easy penetration into your virgin hole.
I hope it gives you more confidence in having fun..cheers.Njoy every moment of your life, coz no one wanna die Virgin ;-)
on: June 26, 2009 7:37 PM | Reply
I think you need me!
Wandy
on: June 26, 2009 8:07 PM | Reply
If you are worried about ur virginity and want to remain virgin till ur real love...i have an idea...start dating with any guy ask him for oral sex, it will give u immense pleasure...
post ur experience on the same portal...
Cheers have a nice time
on: June 26, 2009 9:32 PM | Reply
Hey honey, masturbate by touching ur clitoris & labial lips. But don't insert finger or any object,cos you'll loose ur virginity.
Most of the girls can reach climax by manual stimulation of clitoris rather than having penetrative sex.
So i suggest not to have penetrative sex before you meet a guy who is gonna marry you.
Enjoy
on: June 26, 2009 10:02 PM | Reply
Hi, This is normal. Rub ur pussy with your fingers...that will make to give alot of pleasure...hmm...i miss u...
on: June 27, 2009 11:05 AM | Reply
hi sexxy,aati kya mere saath,puri pyaas bujhadunga.
on: June 27, 2009 11:49 AM | Reply
Hi, loosing virginity is not a crime. Having fun and leading life in the right direction will definitely makes you very happy. Wanna know more contact me.
on: June 27, 2009 2:07 PM | Reply
Come to me baby. I will satisfy ur sexual urge.
on: June 27, 2009 4:18 PM | Reply
hiiii
well what u do is perfectly normal human behaviour!! And about virginity well a man can't tell anyway (im a man) so there's no need about worrying. Besides u get to live only once so chill
on: June 28, 2009 3:35 PM | Reply
Sweetheart, come let's have fun.
I will penetrate so softly that no one can know. Insert bananas to ensure that hymen is not split.
Nowadays, experience counts everywhere. So having sexual experience with your close friends will improve ur sexual skills.
Remember that women have right to have sex and don't wonder if tomorrow the govt. introduces womens' bill only for the sake of satisfying parliamentarians (ie. Male MLAs & MPs)
on: June 28, 2009 4:49 PM | Reply
ha baby... if u wann remain virgin don take any chance with guys.. and more over what ur doing wil not make u loose ur virginity.. go on and on have fun take care..
on: June 29, 2009 2:52 PM | Reply
Hi Virgin
if you want to enjoy alone
than put some oil on ur hand and rub ur vagina lips u will feel like in heavens
CHEERS
;-)*
on: June 29, 2009 6:54 PM | Reply
HI HONEY..
masturbate urself.. but dont insert any object in pussy..
and enjoy urself..
on: July 2, 2009 6:43 PM | Reply
Hi!
Sweetheart it is your life n ur future so u need to decide what is right n what is wrong
all mans are b including me also so dont think few mens r good n few r bad all r the same we all love to take advantage of a girl so if u wanna enjoy u can call anyone u like the most bye c ya
on: July 8, 2009 10:03 PM | Reply
its something very natural n its called " sexual urge". i also had it a lot when i used to study. i think the mind wanders during studies n this is the best thing to imagine about. well if u need help in it then do write in to me n lets c what can b done. :)
on: July 13, 2009 8:48 AM | Reply
It is completely normal...There is no way someone can get rid of it...You could suppress it by masturbating (you don't have to insert anything to do that though) ...Virgin or not...Everyone has urges !!
Tc !!
on: August 7, 2009 4:27 PM | Reply
you should have sex and experience the ultimate pleasure....dont fear for anything ...life is short and enjoy the most of it