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Sex Advice: Fiancee knowledgeable about sex

Question. I am a 28-year-old man. I regularly have sex with my fiancee. She sounds very knowledgeable about sex and is forvever telling me how and when to do it. Once, she even said “Shee baba, you don’t know anything.” Does this mean she is sexually experienced? She also had condoms in her house, which she says belong to a friend. Please help.

Answer. Either you trust her and marry her or don’t. All you describe means nothing. It means you were ignorant and she’s more clued in. Not quite sure why her friend should leave her condoms at your fiance's place. You will have to go by your instincts and try to trust her.

Comments (55)

Posted by sameer
on: April 11, 2009 4:26 PM | Reply

Gud, she has revealed before u r wedding, she for sure is not a virgin.
Decide and take a call

Posted by dranzer
on: April 11, 2009 5:31 PM | Reply

i have some serious doubts about ma recent sexual experience.hw n wer shud i ask d questions???? plzzzzzzzz help me.... its really urgent....

Posted by Draizon
on: April 11, 2009 5:55 PM | Reply

How can someone trust a bitch? I think that guy got every right to know who she really is..marrying a bitch will do more harm and damage later than now..

Posted by erected bull
on: April 11, 2009 7:19 PM | Reply

As a matter of fact,u would hardly find virgins ( above 16 years)these days.

Posted by vicky
on: April 11, 2009 7:31 PM | Reply

great dear

tum jo kar rahe ho woh to sahi hai
or woh jo kar rahi hai galat
shadi se pahle hi maze le rahe ho or us per shak kar rahe ho

yaar tum kitne saadhu ho pahle khud to dekh lo.

Posted by sameer
on: April 11, 2009 8:36 PM | Reply

friend its damn sure case dat she is not virgin, so decide little carefully , after matter of feelings

Posted by naresh
on: April 11, 2009 8:50 PM | Reply

hahahahahahahahahahaha, she is taking you for a royal ride. have fun with others bun

Posted by MOFY71
on: April 11, 2009 9:28 PM | Reply

she is surely not un-touched. she is well experienced and experience comes with practice, enjoy, hehe.

Posted by Rahul
on: April 11, 2009 9:43 PM | Reply

Dude, ask her frankly about this. never ever marry her with doubts in mind. it'll spoil your whole future.

It may b that she's giving hints to you so that you can talk on the topic and she wanna tell you something. Go talk her out.

If you really plan to marry her, you must talk to her else you'll doubt her your whole life n obviously can never be happy.

Rest assured, ahe's bold (as it seems) n will handle situation at its best so don't be afraid to talk.

Posted by
on: April 11, 2009 9:46 PM | Reply

fuck her nd leave her...shez a whore...

Posted by John
on: April 11, 2009 10:33 PM | Reply

Here you are just asking for opinion, not an answer. The situation is truly helpless. She might be well informed by reading a lot of magazines. Or she might have previous experience. Try talking to her regarding her previous relations. Girls are very silent when it comes to their x-relations. So its your expertise to bring it out from her closets. And having condom in her room makes no sense. She said her friend left it there. Is she staying with her friend? I mean, normally girls do not keep condoms with them, unless they are female condoms. But prostitutes do carry them. This means that it can be her friend who is a professional. You need to relax and talk to her first regarding this concern. Not to the public. Because she is not my gf, she is yours. You should be the judge here. Be open to her, it will help her to open up infront of you.

Posted by simon
on: April 11, 2009 11:10 PM | Reply

Friend,
thisis obvious, she has condoms at her house because she regularky has sex, dont worry, dont marry her, use her for sex, others use her so u use her too.

Posted by baba
on: April 11, 2009 11:20 PM | Reply

she is way toooooooooo experienced for you and is taking you for a joyride. why the hell would her friend leave condoms at her place. dont be so dumb and ignorant to buy this rubbish. i say call off your marriage right now for she is not the right girl for you. you will get a more decent homely girl.

Posted by
on: April 11, 2009 11:36 PM | Reply

Maybe your fiancee's friend is a male who left the condom there...lol...wake up dude...you ain;t dating an angel..sounds like a slut and will remain so after marraige too...My opinion screw her until wedding day and then break up!!!! good luck u need it....

Posted by TheDog
on: April 11, 2009 11:37 PM | Reply

She is definitely experienced. She has condoms in the house and she says belongs to a friend, nice. And no decent girl would have sex with even fiance before marriage. I would say have fun and get out....

Posted by Srikanth
on: April 11, 2009 11:52 PM | Reply

Grow up guys ... These days even a school kid knows all about sex and all .. one thinks that the gal is not virgin bcoz she knows abt sex .. man you need a serious break .. second thing, if you dont trust the person you are going to share your life with ? dont ever think of marriage .. bcoz marriages are based on trust on each other ..

Posted by anita
on: April 12, 2009 12:10 AM | Reply

one wont be able to guide without knowldges. for sure she has gained the knowldge through experience..and those condoms may surely belong to her male mate.. enjoy while you can and make the call

Posted by Sam
on: April 12, 2009 12:11 AM | Reply

Question: Have you been with anyone?

If yes: Stop being a hypocrite, You done deserve a virgin.

If No: you must be one shit fuck.

Posted by Ballehiballe
on: April 12, 2009 12:29 AM | Reply

If you are really a CHUTIA, then marry her otherwise PATLI GALI PAKAR KAR NIKAL le bhai.

Posted by jack
on: April 12, 2009 12:32 AM | Reply

if u r havin 2nd thoughts abt ur relationship,dan liste n to ur brain n nt ur heart,experienced both sides of my decisions,heart screwed me up big time,head helped me predict each n every step of hers b4 it happnd.gud luck

Posted by Manu
on: April 12, 2009 12:57 AM | Reply

hey man ur right...she is experienced for sure man...she sounded like a slut...sorry to say that but truth always sounds bad....i hope u understand...but only think this that she said u that YOU DONT KNOW ANY THING....that means SHE KNOWS SOMETHING WHICH U DONT KNOW...u know what i mean...she is experienced....now its up to u bro....

Posted by someone
on: April 12, 2009 1:14 AM | Reply

On one hand even u are indulging with pre-marital sex (although with fiancee) but u still expecting a sati savitri..... lokk inside yourself too

Posted by shreya arora
on: April 12, 2009 1:42 AM | Reply

dear mr. sameer,
this guy involve with her in sexual activities b4 the marriage, how could he can expect a virgin girl for him, may be girl kept the condoms only for the protection when she realized that Mr. future husband try to being naughty,and how could you forget, when we need place we always try our friend first, and tell me and other readers: do you think only virginity is the qualification of a women for marriage?

Posted by dude
on: April 12, 2009 2:12 AM | Reply

lol she is a pro fucker dont marry her

Posted by Jacky
on: April 12, 2009 2:31 AM | Reply

Why dont you check her mobile bills.. you might get to know if there was someone in her life before u.
Or maybe you are query her friends..

Posted by pal bajwa
on: April 12, 2009 3:05 AM | Reply

fuck her until u get bored of her and then dump her

Posted by
on: April 12, 2009 3:06 AM | Reply

Dump the bitch-------End of story


If you want sex sex and wife go marry her

If you want good wife - Who dont lie take care of parents go dump the bitch find someone else


You are stupid enough to post your personal problems here. Dude who doest make mistakes we all do. just learn from them move on. 95% of ppl will go in favour of girl always remmber that. Learn to take ur stand

Posted by Romeo
on: April 12, 2009 3:07 AM | Reply

Hey Buddy,

U said u r having sex with ur fiance rt. Thats good. But can u tell me why u need to do that....anyway u guys are going to get married rt...then why u want to have sex with her now.

Okie, lets come to the point. First tell us r u a virgin. Hope u are not, and then how can u expect others to be virgin. My dear friend, ppl are still out there same like you. So dont worry about anything...just go ahead and get married. But keep 1 thing in mind... if at all u prove ur wife's behavior is bad and she is cheating u...then its a problem.

Posted by ali
on: April 12, 2009 3:27 AM | Reply

u dumb fuck. u trust her enough to fuck her but not enough to marry her? if she marries someone else, then wont she have cheated her husband by fucking u? i pity her for picking a prick like u. if u like her enough to fuck her, then u should either fuck her and marry her or just tell her to find someone else and do what u do best, use soap and water.

Posted by Garud
on: April 12, 2009 4:14 AM | Reply

Jusst fuck her and forget her

Posted by aaaa24
on: April 12, 2009 7:47 AM | Reply

sex is a fantasy, you dont need expereince - every one does most of the same thing

Posted by J
on: April 12, 2009 8:23 AM | Reply

you are already trapped .. shes a bitch. once you say no to marraige .. then she will file rape case against you .. :) if you say yes and then get married . and in future come to know her dirty past and in a fit of anger that your small tender heart got broke .. you will try to atleast scold her or question her .. thats mental torture according to law and she will book either/and 498a - dowry case or domestic violence act case against you and get your family arrested and start exhortion if you are worth anything ...
how to escape:
1> first tactically postpone the marraige date .. (buy time)
2> contact investigation agency and get to know her past
3> build material evidence .. pay money and get her phone records .. you will be surprised :) i assure you that
4> slowly start pretending that you have become pennyless and have some desease etc .. she should think you are unworth .. and escape.
5> dont show anger etc .. indian juiciary punishes only people who are true and correct :)
cheers..
by the way wish you good luck and a happy married life lol
J

Posted by j
on: April 12, 2009 8:26 AM | Reply

editor,
inspite of your splendid job of feeding us with fresh n cool stuff .. it pains my nuts to think that you can push this tender chicken into a life of hell .. by offering him ill sighted narrow minded advice ...
if you are a gal .. please allow me to spank you for your mistakes .. :) !
Regards,
J

Posted by Abhi
on: April 12, 2009 11:12 AM | Reply

She seems to be sexually experienced. Sir, if she is having premarital sex with you (still a fiancee right) I dont see any harm if she has had sex before.

Why dont you clear the air before marriage? You're better off that at least she is honest in her behaviour. A few years back my ex-gf got into an arranged marriage with someone and till date the guy is ignorant of how many times she made out with me...

Posted by KoolFirE
on: April 12, 2009 11:22 AM | Reply

Being knowledgeable about sex doesnt mean she isnt virgin however you finding condoms is a different story.

Posted by cezane
on: April 12, 2009 12:55 PM | Reply

dude...all sure she's nt virgin...dnt be so fool man.. she lied that condom belongs to her frnd.... grown up and start finding new one.......who"s loyal 2 you.

Posted by wasim
on: April 12, 2009 1:19 PM | Reply

it doesnt mean she is a whore...but she's had much more sex then u....and to be honest with u..and the fact that u r asking questions abt this...this is gonna bother u....u shud find sumbody as ignorant as u...u wll b much happier...

Posted by Guru
on: April 12, 2009 1:30 PM | Reply

very suspective. I guess she is having experience earlier.
Now it's up to use second hand thing.
Better look for a new one and you have also made fun so enjoy..

Posted by Moe
on: April 12, 2009 2:23 PM | Reply

You can read online and learn about sex but actual sex is different so she has had sex before also the condoms i think they are not her friends who is this friend a guy or a girl also would they not keep it elsewhere

if i was you id be more careful and hold the wedding off till a while until you know she isnt cheating

Posted by kary
on: April 12, 2009 3:08 PM | Reply

dont ever trust a girl dude, they are all sluts..... looks like yours is of a pure quality, dont trust by their hymen too bec using condoms does not break the hymen, so choose wisely.........

Posted by loveguru
on: April 12, 2009 4:02 PM | Reply

she is a real Bitch, she is quite experienced den u and take my words shaadi k baad bhi kisi na kisi ke affair jaroor hoga uske

Posted by CHUCHIKANDA
on: April 12, 2009 7:19 PM | Reply


EK BAAT TO US LADKI NE BILKUL THEEK KAHI HAI BHAI KI YOU KNOW NOTHING..
TU SAALE LAG HI CHUTIYA RAHA HAI TERI BAATON SE.

KHUD SAALE GHAT GHAT KA PANI PEE AAYA HAI AUR SHAADI KARNE KE LIYE TUJHE KUMARI KANYA CHAHIYE....

I AM DAM SURE KI TERE JAISE CHUTIYE KO WO LADKI KHUD GAAND PAR LAAT MAAR KAR CHOD DEGI..

Posted by jv
on: April 12, 2009 8:12 PM | Reply

wat a shithole u r....condoms do break the hymen n hymen rupturing doesnt only depend on fuckin....even after exercise or yoga hymen gets ruptured...and the hymen doesnt prove ne 1s virginity...

now mr FIANCE..i tell u 1 thing trust her or call of this marraige cos this wont work for u guys...u can ask her about her past relations...and all the romp she has done in bed wit others...but u must rily strong heart ed to hear it...at the end trust will matter in ur marriage,so get ur trust upon her,back...

n to them who says tat having sex wit ur fiancee b4 marriage is wrong....i'll say "GO FUCK UR MOTHER"...
neways hope the best for u...jus trust her...

Posted by Darth_Sidius
on: April 12, 2009 8:43 PM | Reply

Hypocritical jerk-offs!! You men who call the girls mentioned in here names are the scum of society!
Where do you all get off, when all you're ever hoping for is quick fuck with none of the conditions that come with it? You people would fuck some girl without batting an eyelid and then carry on with your holier-than-thou attitude and expect a virgin when you get married!
Grow up for fuck's sake and stop being such big douchebags!!!

PS - In case you think I'm some frustrated feminist, you're WRONG! I'm a man (something you fucks will never be)!

Posted by
on: April 13, 2009 1:17 AM | Reply

i forgot to take the condoms tat i left in her place... hope u didn't find the used one!!!

Posted, in reply to kary's comment, by D BEST
on: April 13, 2009 1:18 AM | Reply

Abey chutiye...tujhe kisne kaha ki condom lagane se hymen nahi toot ti....
Hymen to ungli(finger) se b toot jati hai. Jab tujhe itna b nahi pata to tu kya suggest kar sakta hai...!!!

Posted by
on: April 13, 2009 1:29 AM | Reply

Its fine if a girl has had one or more bfs in the past and had sex...but this seems to be a girl who is still fucking one or more guys...why else will someone have condoms at home...having slept in the past shouldn't be an issue but what you should be bothered about is whether she is sleepign with someone right now or will sleep with someone after marriage...looks like she is sleeping or she will...time to back off

Posted by guy6600crazy
on: April 13, 2009 5:25 AM | Reply

Well you are no saint are you?

You are fucking her before marriage. And you are getting these doubts after you have fucked her. Great!

You should have thought all these before plugging it in. Since you are no saint, you have no right to point fingers at her. I hope you are not looking for reasons to dump her some how.

And for all the guys who think the girl is a 'slut': If a guy fucks a dozen girls then he is a 'macho dude' And if a girl does the same then she is a 'cheating slut'.

Let He Who Is Without Sin Cast The First Stone.

Posted by Pa Ooga
on: April 13, 2009 1:50 PM | Reply

by the way, when you are alreday having sex with her, then why r u complaining?????


looks like you are an ediot or making fool of all of us.

Posted, in reply to shreya arora's comment, by shriya
on: April 14, 2009 1:27 AM | Reply

shut the fuk up idiot..u urself r a horny woman using debonairblog for satisfying her fantasies.

Posted by kissit
on: April 14, 2009 8:50 AM | Reply

Dude,
let me tell you something, she might had watched so many movies to be experienced like that. And for the condom part may be she is telling you the truth.I think you should ask her and clear your mind about it before you do anything

Posted by A girl
on: April 14, 2009 1:30 PM | Reply

dont listen to the male chauvinistic pigs here.

If you have an issue with her experience, or YOUR lack of experience, confront her and ask her about her previous boyfriends. With that said, U need to tell her about your previous girlfriends, if u even have any.
As for the condoms, as long as she can earn and afford them, whats it to u? It is but obvious that u shud go and talk to her directly and not try to have all these desperate chutiyas here say shit about ur future wife. honestly, i doubt ur character. What a madar chodh lund ke pissu u r to let other chutiyas like u say such things about ur girlfriend. WHAT IS WRONG WITH U!! RU just jealous that ur girlfriend is hot enough to get other guys?? or ru jealous that ur not the only man shes been with?
what a loser.

I suggest, dont get married only. instead, for the rest of ur lousey life why dont u just jack off to the videos and the "real" sex stories here (sense the sarcasm). And u can always find likeminded idiots to talk to here!! who assume that every girl who happens to love a man and share something special like sex is a "bitch" or a "slut" or a "whore".

even ur mother's had wild sex with ur father's (who may or may not be ur biological father's). So just grow the fuck up. and then, maybe, MAYBE consider marriage.


assholes.

Posted by
on: April 14, 2009 6:30 PM | Reply

well said... Most of the comments I see seem to be posted by real hypocrites...

They seem to think that, being a male gives them every right to fuck every female, but they expect their GF / fiance to be as virgin as they could possibly be...

You reap what you sow...

You fuck others before marriage, then you should be prepared to expect a partner just like you...

Cheers.

Posted by Doc
on: April 15, 2009 7:52 AM | Reply

Firstly, were you a virgin before you had sex with your fiance?
If yes, you need to know if she was a virgin before she had sex with you.
If no, don't be a hypocrite, marry her. You don't deserve to marry a virgin neither do you deserve to know about her past, unless you have told her everything about your past.
Secondly, to know the truth about her, get to know her past through her or/& her friends or/& detective agency, ONLY if you told her about your past.
The fact that you asking for advice on a public internet forum itself proves beyond doubt that you don't trust your fiance. And without trust, you cannot lead a happy married life!
If you wanna break it off, do it "softly", so that she doesn't get hurt. If you get angry and hurt her in anyway, you can end up in huge trouble.

Posted by cm
on: April 15, 2009 4:19 PM | Reply

sherya y ou are great pls mail ur pic i want to see u naked darling!!!

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