Question. I have a strange problem but I am sure I am not the only one who has such a problem. My wife is very young, beautiful and sexy. I like her to wear revealing clothes in public. We like to have sex in open terrace and I always wish somebody catches us in the act and have a glimpse at my wife. Is this normal?
Answer. Your problem is of sexual perversity and you should see a psychiatrist lest you actually ask your wife to expose herself. It definitely is not a problem with many men as most men are able to exercise control their over active imagination and know how to keep their very private fantasies private.
Editor: Would be great to know how many of you harbour similar fantasies. I guess, most people find it really arousing if somebody catches them having sex. Please feel free to post in the comments.
Comments (52)
on: September 1, 2008 5:57 PM | Reply
Without such people how would debonairblog exist?
And you are calling him pervert for that?
Theres such a thing as good customer service, you know ..
on: September 1, 2008 6:06 PM | Reply
i feel the other way round,where my wife gets fucked in front of me
on: September 1, 2008 7:12 PM | Reply
yak i think its sick some things are better private
on: September 1, 2008 7:52 PM | Reply
What a man , dude.. its ur wife not someone else.. please ... arhhhh
on: September 1, 2008 7:59 PM | Reply
Dont worry, its common. Sex infront of other guys is well but in open terrace is not good & not able to our country. So do it man i'll help you to take video of sex wid ur wife
on: September 1, 2008 8:09 PM | Reply
OH this fantasy is not that bad ,i do have sex wid my wife infront of my pets ,on the veranda and sometimes on the roof where i hav been caught by my neighbour's daughter. But still my wife loves it.
on: September 1, 2008 8:31 PM | Reply
I also have similar fantasy. However i don't want somebody to catch us.
on: September 1, 2008 8:59 PM | Reply
I understand this. If you have a really beautiful wife and you see so many friends with ugly women around, you want people to realize that you got something that the others don't. I am not sure whether that means that you want to strip your wife in front of every one though. But, it is, in basic, like showing off your flashy car while others have lemons.
on: September 1, 2008 9:08 PM | Reply
doing sexual act in open is not a bad thing......but the people who see it in open.....may get a wrong impression of our partners as sexual dolls....... got to be carefull........
on: September 1, 2008 9:41 PM | Reply
There is nothing "pervert" about it, it's called exhibitionism, and many couples are into this.This is a very common fantasy among married males. If you guys are into swapping, you can actually have sex while another couple watches you, it's much safer that way instead of experimenting with a stranger. With strangers, a mild form of exhibitionism would be more acceptable and safe.
on: September 1, 2008 9:53 PM | Reply
ya i do , love to fantasise of sex in front of people , surroundings . group sex swap etc
on: September 1, 2008 10:45 PM | Reply
i am ready to watch u all in live action.
on: September 1, 2008 11:47 PM | Reply
i think this man needs a psychiatrist,as soon as possible,or his wife will b get in to others hands..as for me i like to b alone and enjoy the act...
on: September 1, 2008 11:51 PM | Reply
I dont feel the thought of someone watching us in private arousing.its pretty strange because i like to have sex in totally private area where me and her can be comfortable.love making is an emotional bond and the guys should not push their girlfriends into something they dont like.it should be a mutual relation
on: September 2, 2008 12:42 AM | Reply
thats gr8 fantas.U can add me in ur yahoo profile i ll admire ur feeelings and appriciate ur doinds on net and cam. Fell free contact me
on: September 2, 2008 1:17 AM | Reply
gr8 idea... how about me having sex with ur wife & us seeing the reaction on ur face... :)
on: September 2, 2008 2:09 AM | Reply
I do fantasize the same. But don't think I will ever be able to exercise the same with my wife.
on: September 2, 2008 2:18 AM | Reply
i loved doin it, pda was a def turn on for me, loved makin out in the open n terraces but nvr wanted 2 get caught though!!
on: September 2, 2008 2:53 AM | Reply
i have same kind of fantasy, totally same kind of.
on: September 2, 2008 3:14 AM | Reply
Saale this is d weirdest thing i heard in a long time, kaun apni biwi ka public show karna chahega, shiwaye ek hopeless pervert ke. U r gone case man !!!
on: September 2, 2008 1:08 PM | Reply
This guy is fucking sick...
on: September 2, 2008 1:46 PM | Reply
There are no limits to fantasies. Sex in public & exhibitionism are amongst the most common fantasies. No problem in that. However, trying to play out such fantasies is not always a good idea. So my advice is, let fantasies be fantasies, enjoy them but don't try to enact them in real life.
on: September 2, 2008 3:01 PM | Reply
Im an indian guy who doesnt live in india at the moment...
Ive done it once in the open.. in the park at around 11 in the night.. i wld say it happened only for the thril of doing it in the open more than the fun..(i had my heart in my mouth more than enjoying the fun)
i prefer indoors anyday mate!!
on: September 2, 2008 4:58 PM | Reply
could u post ur wife pic.wid out showing her face.
on: September 2, 2008 5:59 PM | Reply
It's me... me... me...
i really found it the most arousing situation of someone having a glimpse that what i am actually doing with my wife, and not only that it greatly arouses me of fantasizing of what next would happen if i am to share & present my beautiful - young wife to him. would really like to hear from other members what they think about their partners ?
on: September 2, 2008 9:19 PM | Reply
Private sex is hard to get these days.. u say public sex???
on: September 2, 2008 9:51 PM | Reply
In the end, dude, it's a decision only that you and your wife need to make. If you ask for advise, one guy will say one thing and another guy will say the opposite thing.The answer to your question of whether you should enact this fantasy or not depends entirely on your attitude to it. As yourself few questions 1) Is your wife also interested in this?
2) Have you both considered all the pros and cons of it?
If the answer to the 2 questions is yes, go right ahead and do it. Don't look for approval from someone else. There's no such thing as "right" and "wrong" in sex.
This is solely a decision to be made by you both, husband and wife.
Good luck to whatever you may choose.
on: September 2, 2008 10:14 PM | Reply
last december on my way back from US i and my wife stayed for one night at a five star airport hotel in london.....my wife started giving me naughty looks as the night fell..... that night we had sex in the hotel corridors, elevator, ice rooms(where i rubbed ice on her hot cunt)n the parking lot(did care for the security cameras).....it was one of a life time experience for us as a hot n young polish female floor manager caught us smooching in the elevator..... she kept silent but i could see she was really enjoying and so were we..... i lift my wife's short dress to expose her n she rubbed my cock over the pants..... it was awesome.....
on: September 2, 2008 10:24 PM | Reply
whenever i have sex with my wife in the open i always fantasize about someone catching us doing the act it really gives me a kick but fantasies r ought to be fantasies... n moreover it really depends who catches u... i think the most safe way is to do such things at a place where no one is known to u n the environment is liberal like honeymoon resorts or european countries,etc...every male would love to be caught by a female, i'm not sure about what the female would desire...EDITOR I BELIEVE WE NEED TO HAVE FEMALE/WIFE VIEWS ON THIS????
on: September 2, 2008 10:27 PM | Reply
WTF, its perfectly normal to have such fantasies, its just that they cannot be done legally in India without being caught.
Please do not call it Sexual perversion.
on: September 2, 2008 11:22 PM | Reply
I find it quite disturbing that you habour such thots! Perhaps you will graduate to seeing your wife gang banged at a later stage once you realised yr fantasy is never ending. Careful mate of wat you desire. It might come true and lose yr better half! Take care
on: September 2, 2008 11:45 PM | Reply
world is too small for fantasies..only the luckiest can make it come in real..but it can get the shit out of u..
on: September 3, 2008 1:08 AM | Reply
I have had sex with my ex gf in the back of an SUV and at the end of it saw a young boy around the age of 14 or 15 masturbate watching us.
on: September 3, 2008 1:52 AM | Reply
If both the partners are willing...Why the hell should you care..
Just go ahead and cum in public..
on: September 3, 2008 8:41 AM | Reply
Everyone (including animals ... man / woman is a social animal) survives 'happily' because of excitement. All of us require some excitement to take life forward. For some it's plainly to earn well for the family, for some it's food, for some it's sex, for some it's driving a car etc etc.
Perversion in my dictionary is something that is forced on and does not have the other person's consent or pleasure.
The perversion term used by the expert here is merely a result of the prudish British and Islamic regimes over India for so many eons.
Women harbour more fantasies than men just that they do not come in the open too commonly. More women think of sex with animals than men too and this remains a fact!!!
A woman can enjoy sex more than a man which is a fact ordained by nature.
We know perversions cause we are taught that else anything that brings pleasure to 2 people mutually without harming or hurting or going against the wishes of any other person involved CANNOT be perversion.
Men or women (especially men) after a point of time of marriage or relationship begin to look for more excitement that brings about these ideas. The whole idea (maybe subconciously) is a way of showing off 'see I got somethign great with me' for one and also to check on (which makes the person feel great and good inside) 'if he / she comes back to me after tasting someone else' which actually makes the relationship stronger.
Ofcourse there are lop sides to this depending on our internal security and insecurity. If you think that he / she should not show pleasure or enjoy someone else more then there's a problem that may lead to bad situations later. If the idea is for your spouse to enjoy rather than you watch someone else enjoy your spouse it's more preferred lest you may wind up in a bad marriage ....
There's a LOT more to be written on this but if the synopsis gives you an idea friend nothing like it :-)
Cheers and enjoy yourself
on: September 3, 2008 10:54 AM | Reply
Well, its rather personal bt such fantasies do appear in my mind too... like some1 seeing us when we make sex, or like my wife arousing a person with her charms.. i dont think thats pervert, esp if u can share these fantasies wid ur wife
on: September 3, 2008 3:19 PM | Reply
well, letme admit it, over the years ive devlopd this fantasy of having my wife 'seen' by others... though actually i dunno if i wud really exhibit her.
Bt i realy feel xcited to think of she cheating on me, and i secretly see her making luv to some other guy.. who loves her really hard. Theres nothing wrong in it.
COME ON ALL U MARRIED GUYS.. LETS SHARE IT
on: September 4, 2008 3:59 AM | Reply
Sick guys, give all of ur wives to me for enjoying them in ur terrace ;)
on: September 4, 2008 5:00 AM | Reply
great man .. i do wish the same . make sure your if ok with it .. and the ramu kaka u r fuck all .. grt act dude .. its an insprision .. did u had sex in the elevator man .. its grt .. fuck all .
on: September 5, 2008 6:02 PM | Reply
comments by Orignial.. are quite true. b'ful observations.
Gud to see so many guys sharing their FANTASIES... and im pretty sure that while all of u harbor ur fantasies, not many of u WUD PLAY IT IN REAL.. so there's no harm done.
i think ther's a definite excitement in thinking that ur wife gets luvd by other person.. infact we two luv sharing such fantasies with each other. The TRUST is that we wudnt be acting it out!!
on: September 5, 2008 6:04 PM | Reply
I think its an exciting topic.. Can we have a portal where we can share such FANTASIES.. or may be real-life experiences of getting caught or such like..??
(ATTEN PLS: MODERATOR.. U MAY THINK ON THIS)
on: September 5, 2008 8:57 PM | Reply
THE EDITOR HAS COMMENTED ABOUT SOMEBODY CATCHING WHEN HAVING SEX.
I HAD GONE THIS UNFORTUNATE EVENT
dURING THE MUMBAI RIOTS TIME A FAMILY FRIEND OF US WHO DIDNT HV MALE MEMBERS AT THEIR HOUSE (HUSBAND IN GULF) ASKED ME AND MY BRO TO STAY AT THEIR HOUSE, AND THE THEIR DAUGHTER WAS IN LOVE WITH ME. DURING THE NITE. WE WERE SEMI NUDE AND I WAS SUCKING AND PRESSING HER BOOBS SUDDENLY A HAND TAPPED ON MY SHOULDER AND ASKED ME WHAT IAM DOING IT WAS HER MOTHER. I FELT SOOO SAME FACED DIDNT HV THE DARING TO FACE FOR NRLY 4-5 MONTHS
on: September 6, 2008 7:45 PM | Reply
I would love to be caught by my sister-in-law while making love to my wife.
on: September 7, 2008 10:20 PM | Reply
i have also same problem. i showing all my wife naked pic and over sex vedio to my 1 frieds .i feel horny whan he show my wife naked . i want to my frieds fuck my wife.I would love to be caught some1 fuck my wife like crazy infront of me. this is my 2post 1st is soham...
on: September 8, 2008 8:00 PM | Reply
What a pervert..... seriously ass....u need a Psychiatrist.
go and get yourself checked and whoever thinks the same
on: September 9, 2008 4:26 PM | Reply
I want to fuck my sister-in-law and Iam trying from last 2 years but she is not convinced. If you have any idea how to convince him please share me.
on: September 11, 2008 11:01 AM | Reply
it is nothing harm to have fantsy like that i have also have like that fantasy but its reall make it trouble if some one make tape and publish on net then ur identity is open so it just make the fantisies dont try if u wanna try then try other location then where u live but only littel exibitiest not like just kis infront of girl press boobs in crowded bus it make also very pleasure and make her touch in crowd bus and if u wanna fulfill ur fantcy then best is travel in night sleeping coach and fuck there it is very good place for enjoy ur fantcy v do it many times when u down from there bus every body who around us watch us and give smile means they know hat v do in the compartment so go do it in the bus its safe and fulfil ur fantsy ok go aheah its not bad to fantysies have good time
on: September 22, 2008 2:26 AM | Reply
ok first of all...all u fuks need 2 improve ur English......assholes
on: September 29, 2008 12:55 PM | Reply
first check what she likes. if she is a materialistic girl, then the job shud get easier. Gv her gifts regularly (when you gv a expensive one tell her not to tell your wife) and advise her on her problem, show concern. Do not be very close with your wife in front of her. From your mail,I am sure by now she knows your intentions. When you are alone just hug her, no boob and ass grabing too fast, only proceed when she gradually accepts you and feel obligated. BE PATIENT.I tried these and have scored. Forbidden fruits taste much better and very exciting and intense too. Good luck.
on: October 2, 2008 1:34 PM | Reply
Me and my wife love this.We usually go on long drives and she reveals (pretending unknowing) to truck drivers. sometimes we go on link roads and she piss in open space while pretending she is unaware of others while at the same time making sure that someone catches glimps of her pussy.We have fucked in hotels window opened but at night.
I definately belive their must exist a lot of link minded couples in pakistan, as we absolutely consider ourselves normal.
on: October 14, 2008 10:07 PM | Reply
I just believe, this man can not be less than a case of doctor, who wish her wife to expose and go on the top of the floor to do that.
Please suggest him to go for a treatement rather.
on: October 29, 2008 12:26 PM | Reply
its really erotic desire and its upto fantasy on bad