Question. I will be getting married soon. I have two questions. 1. If my wife's hymen is intact, will there be bleeding during the first intercourse? Will I experience pain as well as well? What kind of medication or first aid will be needed? 2. I want to get rid of hair growth on my penis since they will interfere when my wife performs oral sex on me. Please help.
Answer. 1. Usually, the man doesn't experience pain unless his foreskin doesn't retract easily. The first intercourse is painful for the woman but is usually bearable. Often, the man doesn't insert his penis correctly, hence making it even more painful. I suggest that after good foreplay, you use a finger to split the hymen. It is much easier and less traumatic. The amount of bleeding is usually as much as that on has from a finger prick. If it's more, the first aid action is having a handkerchief pressed over the vaginal opening. 2. Use a pair of fine scissors to snip the hair short.
Comments (10)
on: August 24, 2008 5:03 PM | Reply
very good answers...also dont forget to keep some gel..it may come handy ;)
on: August 24, 2008 11:26 PM | Reply
scissors? Damnnnn,are we in stone age or what? buy a nice small electric shaver. its easy to shave anywhere near crotch, ass, armpits and even on the balls. takes less than a minute and safer to use than scissors. i hate those scissors. Wait, I just got an idea. if everything goes wrong with my career I can at least be a good electric shaver sales person LOL
on: August 25, 2008 12:37 AM | Reply
when i masturbet i felt that the time is very little, i mean within 1.5 minutes my spams gets out, i'll be married soon, so i am afraid if the intercourse time keeps shorter then what will happen, am i normal or should i consult a doctor....please advise
on: August 25, 2008 1:45 AM | Reply
@faded glory:
When you masturbate, you generally tend to get over excited as it is running all in your mind. What you are experiencing is very normal. Try using a condom when you masturbate, you will realize that you will last much longer. This is because a condom reduces the sensation that your penis will feel, making you last much longer. I would also recommend not going at it really fast. Take your time and try to stop when you are about to burst. Let the feeling pass and start again, you will last a lot longer.
on: August 25, 2008 7:03 AM | Reply
I have seen a lot of BF's and everything, but still I dont know where to insert , im scared i ll mess up my first night..please help me where exactly to insert!! also will it pain a lot for her? if it does how can i avoid? please email me or reply..thanks
on: August 25, 2008 11:19 AM | Reply
good response from editor.
but buddy u wont get oral sex soon from ur wife, as indian girls r not keen on oral sex. u might be lucky if ur wife is keen. also, use electric shaver instead of scissor, quick n easy
on: August 25, 2008 5:02 PM | Reply
u are what a chicken...u simply don't deserve to fuck a woman...wish the lady fucks u with her boobs
on: August 25, 2008 11:11 PM | Reply
Hope u r expections come good.If u r lucky enough u r wife will be a Virgin else unnecessary don't take much pain thinking about that.Just go with the flow and relax while doing it for the first time.Don't ponder much abt Virginity and one more important thing don't force u r wife for Oral.watch some gud porn movies u'll be a master how to take control of the situation.
on: August 26, 2008 3:31 PM | Reply
well normally the bleeding depends on the insertion u ram ur dick hard she writhes in pain but u do it slwoly building pressure slowly and one gentle firm push u will get in but if u really like to ur wife go in caveman style ram it hard :))
and while if have hard foreskin and remember to pull back foreskin and sometimes if ur wifes pussy is tight u can split u frenulum the base of u dickhead
we call it frenulum tear
apply ice packing and compress it hard untill ur bleeding stops if it does not stop call 108 or emergency :))
consider urself lucky if ur wife hymen is intact i guess nowadyas u dont find many virgins :))
on: October 5, 2008 2:40 PM | Reply
Respecter Sir,
i am a 27 years and my lover is 21 years we are in love since last 3 years.we had sex relationship but i have tried 4 times to intercourse with she firstly denying to do that later she agreed. when met each other we make amoral sex and i make fingering to her and she sucking my penish . when i put my penis into her vagina she replies its paining and tries to put out my penis in that situation i am trying but i could not enter my penis after some time i ejaculate.It is very sad moment for me .Now i am away from her by fone she is exited and saying me to fuck her i replying her that i fucking her and replies fuck me as u wish.i am in doubt that what is the real fact.is she getting pain or showing me taht its painning to avoid intercourse.she is telling she had never fucked or touched except me .and we both are new to make intercourse.when i am asking her when i will be with u will u cooprate to fucking you . she is replying u will fuck me this time as you wish,i will be ready to tolerate the pain.Kind ly suggest me what is reason behind this and suggest me how we will get satisfacation .what i will doto get satisfacation and how can i avoid this inability situation.
Thanling you
Bishal