Que. My husband ejaculates too soon. Usually, he asks me to wait after the first ejaculation and we continue with foreplay. When he regains his erection, we try a second round of intercourse. However, the problem of early ejaculation persists. I know that my husband loves me a lot but lately he is under a lot of work pressure. Please advise.
Ans. Talk to him. Absolute understanding between each other is the path to happiness. Request him to first give you an orgasm with good lubrication. Once inside, he should rest inside till he regains control. Then he should stroke and stop when he feels he is nearing ejaculation. Repeat 10 to 15 times before completion. He will see improvement within four months.
Comments (9)
on: July 7, 2008 9:55 PM | Reply
hi. how r u. i am sorry to read that ur not satisfied. but if u wish n if ur open minded lady, u can meet me.. will b able to give u all that ur seeking for..
on: July 8, 2008 1:27 AM | Reply
I got married two months ago and I also experience the same problem. I ejaculate too early the first time around half an hour i erect agn n second ejaculation is last longer.but during dat half n hour my wife cools down.
on: July 8, 2008 6:29 PM | Reply
Stop and go is the way to fix this problem. Perfect advise.
on: July 8, 2008 8:08 PM | Reply
i agree what the editor said to ur question, this would really help you
on: July 9, 2008 12:18 PM | Reply
Don't think. It will be overcome by your self. First you need to know the timing of you husband's. When he is nearing ejaculation, stop at ones and touch his penis with your lips…. Mean oral. & let him know how you reached the final orgasm. It's all up to you.
on: July 9, 2008 12:52 PM | Reply
It happens more when we think that one will ejaculate early. I advise you to request him not only for foreplay but also for oral sex. You let him suck your pussy so hard that you will reach a point of orgasm. Only at that point you ask him to fuck you. Believe me, it won't disturb you even he ejaculates too early because you will also cum simultaneously. Try it and feel better. Good luck for your sexual life.
on: July 10, 2008 12:41 AM | Reply
practise masturbating when ur wife is out. the more u do it the more u will learn to control the early ejaculation....gud luck!!
on: July 12, 2008 8:13 AM | Reply
hi my husband is very good to me but my pussy is to lose is there a way to fix this so that he can enjoy me. i am overweight and my butt is really big so that might also be a problem.i dont know why some people like big butts because during sex it can be a problem to insert the dick as the ass is too large and commes in the way. also i heard about some vaginal tightening excersis is it true they work to make your vagina tighter ?
on: July 14, 2008 11:32 AM | Reply
To Palak,
I agree that weight may create problem in sexual life.
To tighten your pussy, you can do an exercise daily which will help tight the pussy muscle. Please sit on a chair and start squeeze your pussy as tight as you can and keep in the same position, say for 10 seconds. At first it may be difficult but after some practice it will become easy to do. Try this regualarly and you find the change after some days. Good luck. If possible send some clips.