Question. My girlfriend recently tried to use her vibrator on me when we were in bed. I freaked out and told her to stop and now she thinks I'm boring. How do we get past this?
Answer. Hmm... seems like a role reversal here. Usually it's the guys who're suggesting or doing things in bed which make girls squirm. If it was a girl making this distress call, I'd tell her to try anything once, and then decide. How else does one expand one's sexual repertoire? But if it's something that's beyond the comfort zone of your imagination even, don't give in just to please your partner. Because you may resent it and get back at her in other ways.
