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Que. Is it normal for a penis to become sore after a "hand job"? What can I do to ease the pain of my husband and still give him pleasure?

Ans. Sure, rubbing the penis, or any part of the body for that matter, can be irritating. Don't forget that the penis is covered with the same skin as the rest of the body, and can get chafed and irritated by pulling and rubbing. The big difference is that it feels so good while it's happening, that the skin discomfort isn't obvious, or is easily tolerated, while the pleasurable stroking is happening. A few suggestions: First, there's nothing like a little lubrication to make the hand glide easily without pulling the skin. You can even use your own (or his) saliva. Another suggestion is to vary your technique, changing pressure, and maybe even using something like silky underwear, that would slide more easily than your hand.