Que. We are newly-weds, in our twenties. Late one night, I was horrified to discover my husband masturbating in the bathroom. Has he lost interest in me?
Ans. So long as he's not withholding sex from you, you have nothing to worry about. He's just a young guy who's overflowing with sexual energy. You too are young but inexperienced and perhaps by nature a little prudish. One of the great delights of marriage is that it is a safe and loving place to experience easy intimacy with another. Instead of making this unexpected encounter one of horror and humiliation, why not use it as a lesson that you need to be more open to your husband?
Comments (9)
on: May 16, 2008 1:08 PM | Reply
Wonder what is so 'horrifying' about this episode? After all he was just masturbating, that too in the bathroom right? He was not sleeping with his secretary at office!! With such a prudish wife such as you, I am not surprised that the fellow feels the need to masturbate. If you continue becoming 'horrified' at such normal sexual acts, he will very soon lose sexual interest in you.
on: May 16, 2008 1:36 PM | Reply
Hi it is very normal why do you have to worry. He is just doing it so that he can have a prolonged sex with you. He might be embarrased if he would cum quickly on you so he is doing first round in the bathroom itself and second round with you.
on: May 17, 2008 8:09 AM | Reply
as one comedian once put it, if god didnt want the human race to masturbate, he would of made our arms shorter....Anyone that tells you they dont masturbate is either lying or lying :_>
on: May 17, 2008 9:28 PM | Reply
there is no anything wrong
may be you was slept.
and he dont want to disturb you
he was horney. and he coudent
sleep thats why he was done this thing.
dont get panic madam
i am also doing the same thing lot of time
on: May 18, 2008 7:40 AM | Reply
Well in that case he is not completely satisfied with the sex he is having with you. Discuss it with him and see what more is he looking for. Give him what he wants.
You should be glad he is not having sex with a woman.
on: May 19, 2008 5:44 AM | Reply
Next time you see him masturbate, scream and tell his mother in the morning.
on: May 21, 2008 2:31 AM | Reply
Next time you catch him masturbating, just smile at him, get down on your knees n give him a really mid blowing Blowjob. Next time he wanna masturbate, he will think about what you did n just put it in ur mouth! LOL
on: June 9, 2008 4:29 PM | Reply
next time just run out of the house screaming that you saw your husband masturbating.then call his mother
on: July 29, 2008 11:44 PM | Reply
this is a nice one