Que. I have a friend who is having sexual identity problems. Is it possible for a person to be truly bi-sexual and how does he find out?
Ans. Yes, a person can be truly bisexual. Being bisexual just means that you can be sexually and romantically interested in both men and women. There is no test you can take that will tell you what sexual identity you have. The only possible way to gauge your sexual preference is to observe what sorts of people and things attract you and turn you on. If it's men, then it's men; if it's women, it's women; if it's both, it's both. And it's all okay, regardless of what it is. All sexual interactions between consenting adults are normal and healthy. The reasons for sexual attraction could be very simple or very complicated, from genetic predisposition to some dense convolution of a childhood trauma. No one knows for sure why people have the sexual identities they do.
