Q. My wife and I have been married for three years and have one kid and we are expecting another child soon. Recently, I discovered that my wife has a secret desire to have one-night-stand with other men. She is sexually quite active but is a little shy because of which we do not have a very great sex life. Do you think encouraging her to have such a fling will improve our sex life. I really want my wife to have sex with other men. Please advice.
A. You say that your wife happens to be "little shy" but also happens to be a nymph! Your fantasy seems a bit too far-fetched. Don't even think of suggesting such a mis-adventure to your wife. You should really be mad to do such a thing and take a risk.
Editor's Note: Friends, I have seen many crazy people in my life but this guy takes the cake! Wanting his wife to have one night stand with other men? Must say his wife is very lucky. ;-) On a serious note, do you share his idea of having an extra-marital fling to spice up your sex life? Please post your thoughts in the comments.
Comments (124)
on: August 3, 2007 4:59 PM | Reply
THATS REALLY GREAT MAN U CAN REALLY ENCOURAGE UR WIFE BUT WITH PROPER CARE
on: August 3, 2007 5:05 PM | Reply
HEY, THAT'S A GREAT IDEA IN YOUR HEAD. IF SHE IS BEAUTIFUL, WE ARE HERE. LOL
on: August 3, 2007 5:05 PM | Reply
honestly there should be no problem doing so. only thing is that there is no need to be dedicated to each other after they know that they want to fuck some one else other than his/her partner. just enjoy :)
on: August 3, 2007 5:44 PM | Reply
Why not. Its good she talked to him about it first. And if hes ok with it why not. Might help their relationship.
on: August 3, 2007 5:52 PM | Reply
I think he is inspired by the story in Human Digest few days back
on: August 3, 2007 6:11 PM | Reply
SURE, THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH IT..WIFE SWAPPING IS ANYWAYS TOO COMMON THESE DAYS..GO AHEAD BRO, LET YOUR WIFE FULFILL HER FANTASY AND DESIRE..AFTER ALL ITS ONE HUMAN LIFE THAT YOU GET AFTER 84 LAKHS REBIRTH ACCORDING TO INDIAN MYTHOLOGY..SO LET HER HAVE HER SHARE OF FUN MATE.
on: August 3, 2007 6:13 PM | Reply
Seems the guy s too desperate to make his wife some1 s mistress... not long .. this guy ll post again.. as MY WIFE s no more interested in me.. wat shld i do ?...
on: August 3, 2007 7:13 PM | Reply
Don't fulfill her wish.You can change ur poses and behaviour during sex like a different person
on: August 3, 2007 7:21 PM | Reply
This man is self less... I will nominate him for Magasay Award !!! While he is away for recieving that prize ... I CAN OFFER MY HUMBLE SERVICES TO HIS WIFE>>>>>>>.... and a gesture of gratitute to Debonairblog.com I will post all night long video here....
on: August 3, 2007 7:34 PM | Reply
This man is GOD ! So selfless.. He should be voted the POPE... while he is away to ROME.. I can be of some help to his wife for fulfilling her desires.. after all I got inspiration of self less service from her husband.. as gratitute to Debonair I will post all night video of love making here
on: August 3, 2007 8:11 PM | Reply
Ya right Mr. Editor,
The guy takes the cake for sure. The problem is that his wife wants to eat it and a pack of other dudes as well.
The very concept of marriage is such that this sort of activity is not indulged in. Maybe I am too culturally a "desi" type of person but man, if you wanted your wife to have a bunch of one nighters, my suggestion is, get a divorce double quick and hang up your shingle as a pimp! Ya definitely gonna go far in your new profession.
on: August 3, 2007 8:20 PM | Reply
ANY PERSON WHO CAN THINK OF MAKING HIS WIFE HAVE SEX WITH SOME ONE ELSE IS IMPOTENT AND SICK MENTALLY. NO REAL MAN CAN STAND SUCH A SHAME OF HAVING HIS WIFE TOUCHED AND ENJOYING IT . IT IS DISGUSTING
on: August 3, 2007 8:22 PM | Reply
this is not good at all, but now a days you can see many husbands like this man, bcos i met a house wife, she told me that her husband enjoys when his friend f*ck her before the husband's eyes. Hi, India, we are really developing, and surely we will be a world power but what about family values ? our culture ?
on: August 3, 2007 8:33 PM | Reply
do whatever u like as it is well said that "Miyan Biwi raji, to kya karega Kaji"
But atleast use Condom & have safe sex.................
on: August 3, 2007 8:42 PM | Reply
This is really interesting.
I am ready to have one night stand with her wife...
mukesh
on: August 3, 2007 9:15 PM | Reply
Ohh my god, He is a very good and loyal husband... can i be a partner of his wife for one night. i will never contact her after that night... please contact me ....
22 M good built...
Wanna see my pic i can send you.
on: August 3, 2007 9:34 PM | Reply
the husband must be crezy and insane, boss think abt other person, what if she or he really likes that person and wants to go bed everyday then u will out of the picture
on: August 3, 2007 9:37 PM | Reply
Yes ! I agree to this man. Why not wife can have a one night stand. Or even a occasional bouts without exposing anything to the society.
on: August 3, 2007 9:42 PM | Reply
absolutely madness. afterward if she starting doing it on regular basis where our friend will stand. On the other hand he should more freedom for action in their sex life. after some years she wont be shy.
on: August 3, 2007 10:12 PM | Reply
It is really good to note that your advice is the best and you care for the betterment of the person who posed such a question instead of answering in evasive way like other sites. Thanks to your wise counsel. He must be mad and also foolish to imagine such a thing about his wife or rather he must be impotent. On either way, it is not proper to indulge in such activities and expose the wife to such environments, which may endanger his married life and also that of his child.
Thanks very much for your good reply to him
on: August 3, 2007 10:19 PM | Reply
This guy is nuts...who in their real mind would allow their wife to sleep with others? i wud have agreed if it was he who wanted a affair..this must be a hoax mail..or the is nuts..any way if u still want to try it out...plz contact me or any one here...lol
on: August 3, 2007 10:32 PM | Reply
That is very poor thinking that her wife to have sex with other men just because of he is unable to do what she want
just take some treatment mantely & physically
on: August 3, 2007 10:42 PM | Reply
In my opinion, How ever liberal ideas you might be having, Jealousy and love will always act on your mind.
To give you an example, If you know about the Junkie era (1960's),all those druggies planned for harmonious life, where there is no social restrictions. They can have sex with anyone they desire etc., One of the main reasons for that group to fail is because of jealousy.
One question you should ask yourself, would you be happy learning that your wife had awesome sex with the one night stand guy?? and she finds your everyday sex as well as you uninteresting. If she desires another fling because of this, will you oblige to it again? Basically no one can predict what will happen after that.
My suggestion would be not to go into those treacherous territories in life. you are not only putting your life into risk, but also your child's.
There are certainly many alternatives to spice-up your sex life like roleplaying etc. You can find so much material on the net these days.. so enjoy ..
Incase you chose to go for it, we all would love to hear about how it went, and how it affected your life.
on: August 3, 2007 11:11 PM | Reply
Quote: "I really want my wife to have sex with other men. Please advice."
Don't worry man! I am ready to satisfy your wife's needs. Contact me for further info!!!
on: August 3, 2007 11:12 PM | Reply
he is an ass hole
on: August 3, 2007 11:23 PM | Reply
I have noticed that many people now indulge in adultery due to internet.having the wife do have sex with another men or indulging into groupsex after marriage is nothing but sign of frustration nd degradation morals nd values.
on: August 3, 2007 11:27 PM | Reply
Hey man what the crap ur'e upto?
if she is too shy and dont take active part in ur sexual act, and u r her husband, cmon man how could she let u know that she want to have one night stand? u r seriously sick and should look forward for some psychiatrist.
on: August 3, 2007 11:36 PM | Reply
i don't think it's a great idea... of sharing your spouse with other guys!
you might fantasize about it in the short run,but you'll definitely regret it in the long run!
she might one day storm off sleeping around with other guy's without you even knowing about it
so, don't take a chancee... or you might have to conduct a DNA test for the real father of, off chance your 3rd baby!
on: August 3, 2007 11:42 PM | Reply
Dear editor, I dont know what is so surprising about this man that you found!! In western countries ths is not a uncommon desire at all. In fact I dont think this is an uncomon desire in India too. But as usual, this is also supressed and kept under the carpets to please our so called 'cultural gurus'. Perosnally I carry the same desire and if anyone wants a wife swapping do catch me on my mail.
on: August 3, 2007 11:55 PM | Reply
Dear Man ,
First check out once you leave from front door if somebody else is arriving from ur backdoor and your wife is acting like a cat which after drinking the whole milk asking what is the color of milk .If she is so bold to ask you this , then the above could apply .
If not , My dear friend dont teach the tortoise how to fly , you will never get back .
Once she learns the Game , then you would end up becoming a Pimp for your wife . So suggest you keep your family wall intact and dont break it .It is divine .
If your wife had really asked you for that , then make sure that you screw her till she is satisfied and has no time or energy to fantasize more ....
Even after this you would like her to proceed , I have nothing to tell to a Dick headed Guinea PIG .
on: August 3, 2007 11:56 PM | Reply
This Guy is either too naive or simply out of his mind. If his wife wants to have sex with other men then it means she is sexually not satisfied at all with him. So she will continue the experience and ultimately so called liberal stance of him will either bring the jealous(rightly justified as far as effect is concerned but not the cause) aspect of his or it will make her wife think that her husand is a looser and cant protect her and not possessive about her. In other words the end of marriage.
on: August 4, 2007 12:14 AM | Reply
very gud husband..u shud fnd alternative soln's 2 make ur wife sexually active instead of lettin others 2 do dat!!
on: August 4, 2007 12:33 AM | Reply
I believe u should live positive& realastic mind u have enough power to understand her with ur great feeling for her during sex the more she enjoys the more relax u feel for her , i hope u undstd my point
on: August 4, 2007 12:34 AM | Reply
I think its too bad for ourself to just like think about this coz for a little bit of pleasure I think the whole life is screwed.And the faith word miss from the dictionary.So i think u should try for another material to improve sex life rather making such odd decisions.
on: August 4, 2007 12:34 AM | Reply
Wow!! That's great! At least one pervert husband!!
on: August 4, 2007 12:52 AM | Reply
Hey man don't ruin your married life by your own hand. you might be thinking of this type of stupid things because you want to know how you want to enjoy that seen at that time. but listen after you do allow your wife to have sex with other guy may be you will enjoy your sex life again but i guarentee you that you both will loose your respect for each other.
on: August 4, 2007 1:07 AM | Reply
Its the desire of his husband who wants to have great sex at any cost even his wife.
on: August 4, 2007 1:16 AM | Reply
Let me be the one whenever the plan becomes reality
But at least this is sure that the guy truely loves his wife and would do anything for her.
on: August 4, 2007 1:22 AM | Reply
take care before taking the plunge buddy !!
see that u dont become sidelined to onenight stands.
on: August 4, 2007 1:30 AM | Reply
Well, There's nothing wrong with it. It actually peps up the life. The relationship improves. And if men can do that, then why not the women!
Also the trends are changing now a days. Of course, there is need to be extra careful with who that person is...for that one night fling. Should not turn into a nightmare.
on: August 4, 2007 1:32 AM | Reply
WHERE DO YOU LIVE MATE?
on: August 4, 2007 1:34 AM | Reply
Allow to me to sleep with uor wife i will help her to feel relax
on: August 4, 2007 1:36 AM | Reply
Buddy,
your wife is preg with your second child, that too within 3 yrs of marriage and you still say your marriage is boring ?
I think it is the LACK of SEX due to wife's pregnancy which is causing you to imagine things
A preg woman is likely to glow if she wants the child and this reflects on her personality and it may be a lil attractive to other men especially if the pregancy BUMP is still not very visible.
RElax and enjoy life with ya kids
SEX is imp in life but it is not everything, buddy
on: August 4, 2007 1:37 AM | Reply
It's really seems an adventure now but are you ready to face the adverse consiquences.After your so called fantasy is over will you ever be able to have a normal life with your wife???THINK BEFORE YOU LEAP MAN
THINK HARD.......
on: August 4, 2007 1:39 AM | Reply
i think the guy has lost his mind, these one night stand lead to extra martial affair
and finally break up
on: August 4, 2007 1:55 AM | Reply
What an idiot!
Hope you don't take money from the men with whom she sleeps!
on: August 4, 2007 1:57 AM | Reply
its due to disease called "voyeurism". this man must consult a sexologist or psychotrist.
on: August 4, 2007 2:06 AM | Reply
Well i think the sex-life will surely spice up but not between the couple....but with outsiders.
Just tell me if u drive a BMW one day will u love driving ur Maruti the next day....I don't think so.
on: August 4, 2007 2:17 AM | Reply
Hey, Nice to hear that you want satisfy your wife's fantacy. But on the other hand, it might leave you stranded as well. The outcome might be either ways (your way or her/other way). So, just avoid it and speak with your wife and get to know how you can improve your sex life instead of these craps. Mind you, you are already married and have 1 kid and expecting soon. Your children's life is more important, make sure that what you both (you and your wife) thinks, doesnt get your kid's life hanging.
on: August 4, 2007 3:06 AM | Reply
I think thats fine as long as u both never fight abt the issue again!
on: August 4, 2007 3:16 AM | Reply
Dude, i seriously dont advice you to do that. Its very stupid unless your wife has the same view. From what i see I think there is no proper communication between you and your wife. You are more worried about having sex than satisying her needs. Dont do such a big mistake in your life just for sex. I would suggest you to discuss over this issue with your wife. Thats the only way you can really improve your sex life.
on: August 4, 2007 3:29 AM | Reply
He is a damn maniac. He is so incomplete from inside, that his own desire he wants to throw on his wife. You are right, a shy lady cant be nymph. In clear words, he is incapable of good sex and tring to pretend as been an open minded man.
on: August 4, 2007 4:35 AM | Reply
Theres nothing wrong with this. I am a single male from the U.K and do not date single women anymore. I only have sex with attached Pakistani and Indian women, and only if there husband or boyfriend is there to watch.
on: August 4, 2007 4:52 AM | Reply
well i don't think your really serious about your wife having a fling with some one. Well if u r then guys like us r there, well your really great cause not many men in India would be able to do that. Hope u make the right choice man a womens mind is co complex all i would say is if ur really ok with it then just make i thing certain than after they do it, just make it clear to the guy that its just one time and it wont happen again that way ur wife will not get attached or use to having sex with some one other than u and it may help as she calls the guy and he dose not reply she will know that she is with some one who cares for her but don't let her know u know about it or she will think u r not possessive and will let her fuck as much as she wants .....
on: August 4, 2007 5:35 AM | Reply
I would say that is not a good thought. Dont do that it may spoil ur child carrier. the best way to solve ur wife shyness is to discuss about sex whenever you get a time. you start first and make her feel free with you, dont laught or hesitate when she shares you about sex, be serious to her. hope this will help you.
on: August 4, 2007 6:41 AM | Reply
i dont think its a good idea. i guess this is too much of hollywood movies speaking!
on: August 4, 2007 6:44 AM | Reply
What the fuck man???
you want to share your wife with others????
fuck yourself man??
you know what your problem is???
In these three years you havenot been able to satisfy your own wife!!!!!!
So it's better you keep working on it!!
on: August 4, 2007 6:59 AM | Reply
its not the matter of encouraging such relations... if your wife is so interested let her have fun.. i dont think it'll help ur relation if u restrict her..
one day her desire may turn into a secret marital affair... and i'm sure u wont be in a situation to listen to the shocking surprise from your wife..
now if u allow her to have sex with other man, in future she wont hide anything from you.. but dude, you need lot of guts to take this step.. dont think about the present...think about the future, your family, your kids...
imagine one day, your childern meet a guy who once had sex with your wife.. and your children come to know her past relation with other men..they too will follow your steps.. so dude, think in all ways and take the gaint leap..
on: August 4, 2007 7:19 AM | Reply
Well, what is worng if it helps building a good sex life. Why do we always think that sex and relation has to be in one box, if one is spoiled or spiced the the other will do so. I think if we can separate both then we can be more practical to life and better understanding can be created in relations. offcourse if we can overcome the mental and emotional barrier of thinking sex and relationship comes one box
on: August 4, 2007 7:26 AM | Reply
i donot mind at all. i think he also has the desire to stand with some girl, may b he want to make a way between for both. i do not mind to do the job if her wife is still sexy, beautiful and slim. hehehe. but i will never share my girl with any1.
on: August 4, 2007 7:55 AM | Reply
Thats crazy of you man
what in the world makes you think you will have good sex life
what If she finds other guy better than you ,, you are screwed up man ,,, she will start looking around and eventually turn in to slut ...
NO DUDE ..People will say yes do it ..but dont screw your life with your own hands ...
this is just an advice ,,rest is up to you
on: August 4, 2007 8:18 AM | Reply
Sounds great now. I would suggest you watch the movie Indecent proposal. And you will definitely change your mind. Say suppose your wife has a fuck with somebody. The next question you will ask her is Was he better than me? And what if he was? Your sex life will never be the same. It ain't gonna improve but it will be dead.
on: August 4, 2007 8:52 AM | Reply
Then what does loyalty mean you moron?this man is a pimp & his wife is a whore.
on: August 4, 2007 9:06 AM | Reply
Not At all, i will not allow to my wife. same i suggest to you.
on: August 4, 2007 9:29 AM | Reply
Hi,
I think if a man can do such kind of things, so whats the problem if his wife is having such kind of fantasies.. she is not nympho.. if she is nympho.. we can think what we all are .. who always think nothing but a hole ... :-)
on: August 4, 2007 10:17 AM | Reply
If that man wants to 1 nite stand of his wife with other man... I m ready to take her on. I will teach her lot of sex style n will give her extraordinary sex satisfaction.
Don't forget to contact me.
It will be my pleasure to spend a nite with his wife.
on: August 4, 2007 10:46 AM | Reply
Well really this guy is a mad,who want his wife to have sex with other's i have seen this type of personality.Everyone appears to save there wife from other's but this one is a sick...
on: August 4, 2007 11:03 AM | Reply
No. I dont agree this kind of Extra_marital activities. It wont give any kind of happiness in marriage life
on: August 4, 2007 12:23 PM | Reply
It seems as if he personally doesn't have enough sparks to satiate the desires of her wife so that's why he is proposing such an idea.
on: August 4, 2007 12:25 PM | Reply
I don't know where is an end for a dream. Some dreams are dangerous , this is one of them.Your dream is similar to die with somedbody shooting in your heart.
Dream are beautifull don't make them dangerous couple.
on: August 4, 2007 1:03 PM | Reply
Here in the UK it happens quite often, and in US as well, guys like to watch their wife having sex with another man. The husband usually just sits in the room with them and watches the other guy fucking his wife. Gigolos are hired to do that, or the couple go to a club and invite another guy, I read one story about a gigolo being hired as a anniversary present.
I think nowadays, it would be sexy to watch ones's wife with another man, for men the stimulation is visual and we watch a lot of porn so a sex show is a real dick-raiser.
on: August 4, 2007 1:06 PM | Reply
Madness!!!! in purest form....
on: August 4, 2007 1:22 PM | Reply
I DONT THINK THAT WAS RIGHT HE SHOULD SATISFY HIS WIFE THRE ARE LOTS OF WAYS THEY BOTH HAVE TO ENJOY EACH OTHER NOT A 3RD PERSON
on: August 4, 2007 1:40 PM | Reply
sure. now its a world some thing different . swapping will increase the sex desire. u know fatique is there in all fields. we need varieties including in sex
on: August 4, 2007 2:03 PM | Reply
i think it does. I have girlfriend on the net, we do phone sex ...this makes her very hot and she fucks her husband like hell,.,,,,he has noticed diff....i am now his best solution.
on: August 4, 2007 2:05 PM | Reply
Volunteer hazar hei :)
on: August 4, 2007 2:22 PM | Reply
not in even three more lives will i allow any one to do this.
this is utter fetish. even i will not allow any of my GFs to tell me and then sleep with another person.
on: August 4, 2007 3:39 PM | Reply
Yeah, it may improve ur sex life but in long run it will b d reason for deteorating relationship of urs. Carzy fellow. In that case go for wife swapping clubs... atleast they r safe to certain extent. ok na
on: August 4, 2007 3:56 PM | Reply
Idiotic Idea, Dont share she will forget you always you are not in town
on: August 4, 2007 4:13 PM | Reply
I think if he is willing to have other man for 1 night and by this if he think he can get more adventure in his sex life he can do it. but how will he discourage this practice/ desire of his wife for another time. this is the seriou matter of fact. If he had some plans regarding this then only he can achive his goal otherwise he will loose his wife in all respects and aspects.
on: August 4, 2007 4:14 PM | Reply
You have a kid and also expecting another one.. So you are getting along with life and sex pretty well. So why are you experimenting with a life that is sailing perfectly? If you think that sex life of all other couples are as good as XXX movies you have seen. You are grossly mistaken... 90% of sex between married couples is pretty toned down and that is the way it should be if you want to be discreet before your kids... So forget encouraging your wife. Have a matured talk and counsel her and try to get that thought out... If that desire gets any stronger, it might be a risk to your marriage and family. Spark neglected burns the house... So watch out
on: August 4, 2007 4:38 PM | Reply
in this matter there is nothing bad to take full satisfaction in sex with other man if his wife is ready to do it.for other person you have to check history of that person for medical purpose like ( Hiv positive & etc.)after this checking its ok to do.
on: August 4, 2007 4:59 PM | Reply
I think its perfectly normal, if guys can had sex outside marriage then why not women and if its by mutual concent ..nothing like that,latter u can hav threesome with other females..that will be owsome experience..rest it all upto personal choice and satisfaction.
on: August 4, 2007 5:14 PM | Reply
Enjoy her to the fullest n if u cant then provide her with sex toys but never ever do that mistake u gonna regret it for your life
on: August 4, 2007 5:55 PM | Reply
I think this man has gone mad...how can he share his wife with other men ...
instead of he could have a married a prostitute...
A woman having relation with more than one men is called "Bitch"...does he want to call his wife like this..no na...
instead...make her wife to sit and ..have a discusiiona... buddy ...
on: August 4, 2007 6:37 PM | Reply
what type of husband ru da, today one night stand, ru sure that second night will not come? surely it will come in ur absence, never ever think of this studid idea. then ur wife will not be urs but will be public property (female sex worker)
on: August 4, 2007 7:31 PM | Reply
oooho u wanna make ur wife prostitute,great idea ,in my openion every body in ur locality will love to hv sex with ur wife so go ahead,n wat bout ur mom n sis ,if they r also of the same tune,then open one "chakla ghar" in ur house n displey the add on net,then u will see your wife , other members would b every fucked by some wise people,go ahead.... all the best.
on: August 4, 2007 9:00 PM | Reply
hi,
Its nothing wrong in it its ur legal wife so u have full rights on her... u can enjoying watching her having sex with another men in your bedroom and u watch a blue film. she and u and the person all 3 will enjoy and have fun thats life. once age goes then no use of this body....
Regards
Sindu
on: August 4, 2007 10:14 PM | Reply
Never do this kind of stuff ... you would be cursing yourself in future and I mean that you will curse yourself.. Try to improve your sex life pamparing and touch are the meathods to do this... care for her for even small small things that would improve your sex life and your personal life too
on: August 4, 2007 11:54 PM | Reply
Reply to Nanda,
Well than why marry at the first place, why commit. The first mistake this man made was to marry, why not we all live like animals and have sex with anyone we like.
on: August 5, 2007 12:02 AM | Reply
this guy is NUTS!!!
listen buddy... imagining such things is a different thing and applying it practically would bring nothing else but disaster...
u do this and 1 day, the whole world would watch the video... just as u watched the real show...
grow up u ASS HOLE... and just imagine urself going to the office or anywhere else and people r asking u for tonight's booking with ur wife...u would love it... dont u....!!!
fuck these imaginations u have and f**k ur wife harder....better solution
on: August 5, 2007 12:30 AM | Reply
Well if he really has strong bonding and love with his wife, then he may suggest his idea with her. This act may also result in losing your wife forever if she gets satisfied with another guy. Also this is the most foolish thought that if wife have sex with someone else, the couple's sex life will get more exciting. This thought is only brought up by the husband due to which his intentions is to provide his wife with another guy so that he may have full and open chance to have sex with another gal, just like his wife has done. Evil Thinking and Thoughts...
on: August 5, 2007 1:15 AM | Reply
why not you just have to accomplish ur wife's desires n trust on her . n is also good for some change n fun i life
on: August 5, 2007 3:59 AM | Reply
You should do it with married couple.single male should not be the choice.
on: August 5, 2007 9:55 AM | Reply
Look, after having sex with another person, she will think about another person after few days. because " women can never be satisfied." but i suggest you, dont listen to any one. what your mind say just do that. but before doing think twice. remember you have child and these days are not finished. you have many days in future.
on: August 5, 2007 10:13 AM | Reply
There are many men who like the idea of their wives getting banged by another man while they watch. Many act the three some fantasy into real life too. Then practice is called cuckoldry. As usual our doctor Prem has no idea of this, and is even surprised by the question.
There is no reason why couples, with proper care and understading, should not engage in 3-somes/swap/partner watching etc. to boost up their sex lives.
on: August 5, 2007 3:20 PM | Reply
Mr Ass Holu ,
The number of Divorse cases in Western countries is 40 % more than in India .
Swapping and Infedilty is one of the reasons for it . When a 20 incher Dick is in ur Wives Mouth and when she starts comparing the dick with ur 2 incher , You have lost it and dont live anymore .
So dont make INDIA like western countries . Lets us save the culture and basic family values of our country .
I am not ready for a swap But i am interested in Screwing ur wife as u wish .I can also pay u some 200 £ for an Hour if she gives Blow Job without condoms . :)
on: August 6, 2007 12:04 AM | Reply
Your fantasy will lead u to a divorce.. be prepared..
on: August 6, 2007 1:09 AM | Reply
good payal keep it up ur behaviour rather comment reflects the immense pain in ur heart reguarding a women's respect as well as the humanity which every human being should have
bye
on: August 6, 2007 3:36 AM | Reply
I think he's very brave and a good husband. Most husbands only think about themselves, but here is a man who will put his wishes first.
on: August 6, 2007 1:58 PM | Reply
I think this guy is mad that he wants to end his sexual life with his own hands, and what he's talkin about may end up with some extremely unhealthy results
on: August 8, 2007 2:40 AM | Reply
Swapping should only be encouraged if there's an absolute mutual understanding between the couple. This will rule out the 20 inch-2 inch fantasies out of their minds.
on: August 8, 2007 2:51 AM | Reply
Im a 33 year old married woman with two sons and my hubby and i have no regrets abwt my having sex with other men in front of my hubby. in fact we're enjoying it for the last six years but we keep it to the mimimum and restricted. the first time of course i was a bit shy but you once a woman is stripped of her clothes in front of man and that too if it is done, in my case, in front of my hubby who assisted the first guy in removing my panty, i just wanted to enjoy. in fact it was more thrilling for both of us. i didn't see my hubby fucking me so many times a day even after the whole event was over for a long long time. but yes we do it with people who r just petty people who can't act smart and raid our privacy later on. being indians we have to take care of that much. i don't know whther u wud have this entire story of me in ur column or not but recently when we were in Egypt for a tour we went around the pyramid in a horse-ride and the horses were big and the horseman was also a tough guy. it was probably my hubby's strategy to get late but by the time, i had to get down the horse i was alone and my hubby was watching me form a distance how that horseman lifted me down and u wont imagine he touched my all private parts during the process and even fondled my boobs. this was a trigger for my hubby who had seen all this and i cud guess he had some other plans. Despite being late my hubby insisted the same horseman to take one more round and that he will have to come to the hotel to collect the money. this was an indication for me that this was the man who is the deal for tonight. i had already been touched by that man but this time when i had to ride the horse, i was prepared to give in becoz i knew he wud fuck me tonight. thats what happened but then that guy wud feel obliged and never ever create any trouble to us. He just pushed me up for the horse ride but this time he put his hand on the back of the horse and almost entered his fingers in my vagina. twice or thrice he did it deliberately and then at the end also he was the same. we had our plans set. when he came to our hotel, he had his meat ready . i entice him and made him fuck me . my husband just saw initially but then he also joined and we all enjoyed. I am from a good family and we are all happy. so there is nothing wrong in it. unless and untill it doesn't become like a whorehouse.
on: August 8, 2007 2:45 PM | Reply
Nice comments!!!
Still, I have doubt? Whether gentleman has a guess or his better half has told herself about her secret desire? If so, I think there is no harm. She may try it own her own (may have done earlier) secretly.
If not, there is high danger in this case. If gentleman purpose and she is ready, it may become a chaska and there is no room for gentleman’s interest afterwards as some readers have already expressed.
The Lady is shy by nature may be one face of her. Why not apply some interesting methods at home to make a sexual life spicy. Some good videos and oral applications could help a lot. The gentleman can make her excited by licking her from every corner that is more secure and enjoyable than out world risk(s).
I can help you in this regard if you require any help!!!
on: August 8, 2007 10:49 PM | Reply
asshole people like guddi will get a great gift later on...AIDS ;)
on: August 11, 2007 11:28 AM | Reply
I AM A 23YR OLD GUY. I ENJOY GREAT SEX WITH MY GIRLFRIEND NORMALLY.BUT YESTERDAY WE DID PLAN A DIFFERENT THING.SINCE WE DIDNT HAVE ANY CONDOM THAT TIME I HELPED HER WITH A CUCUMBER,A NORMAL SIZE AND HAD A DEEP PENETRATION.SHE DID ENJOY IT EXTREMELY.BUT AFTER SOME 2-3 HRS SHE IS INFORMING OF BLEEDING AND SOMETHING THAT HAS COME DOWN HER VAGINA.SHE CAN FEEL THAT THING WITH HER FINGER JUST INSIDE THE HOLE.IS IT THE UTERUS?I AM REALLY VERY TENSED.PLEASE HELP ME OUT.
Editor's Reply: Hi Rahul, thanks for writing in. Please consult a qualified doctor for proper advice/help.
on: August 11, 2007 11:40 AM | Reply
Sr Shilpas Jetty,
Don't force you "morality issues" on other people, ok? If a couple wants to swap or have a 3-some, let them. In fact they will do it without needing you advise.
You say it's wrong for a couple to swap, but is it all right if the husband or wife cheats and has secret sex with others? The latter practice is encouraged in our country, while a sensible couple, which wants to experiment sexually, is termed "wrong"
What foolishness !!!
And Jetty, refrain from calling others "Ass hole" in future...
on: August 13, 2007 2:50 AM | Reply
Two ways are there
1. Both of them can let others fuck whoevever they want, but can forget about love relation betweenthem and how their children grow.
2. Forget about fantasies and come to reality. In day go to office work something useful...night come home fuck her nicely...
on: August 13, 2007 12:18 PM | Reply
Absolutely not a good idea, dont do that... It will create more problems or might be end up breaking ur relation with her, so better dont let her sex wid another men.
on: August 17, 2007 12:45 AM | Reply
man wat do i say........................
wish mah hubby was th same!!!!!!!!
on: September 12, 2007 5:28 PM | Reply
what is worng in it after all life is to enjoy .I had sex with one man before marriage and after marriage i continued to have with him now I wanted to have sex with some other man and I think he will be the third one in my life other than my husband. I do not have sentimental values for chastity marriage and one man for a woman and all.especially when I am not at all interested in my husband I am ready to have sex with any man provided he is of my liking after all variety is spice of life
on: September 14, 2007 10:21 AM | Reply
this guys is fucking crazy,he msut be gay i guess want some onee else fuck his wife,if she is shy how come she wan it.guy must be hiding his weakness i guess
on: September 23, 2007 4:29 AM | Reply
Hi,
Most of the comments are one sided. We approve married man sleeping with other women, but we won't accept a woman having sex with other men! Hypocracy??
There is nothing wrong having this fantasy. Definitely enjoyable fantasy.
Bringing into reality - people have to consider their options. Lots of emotions are involved in this act. Yes, some people regretted and some enjoyed. Individuals have to weigh their options.
on: September 26, 2007 10:55 PM | Reply
You sick Bastard !
What the hell are you thinking !!!
I should beat you silly with a stick !
(Okay.......I'm cool.......I'm calm....Relax)
I should tell you that my best friend lost a wife to a swinger and I don't have enough words to describe his misery after that incident.It took years for him to recover from his heart-broken,un-cooperative
fruitless,fun-less mentality
and you are about to repeat the same mistake ! If you care,be more frank to your wife.
Do all kinds of romantic and unpredictable stuff so that she never tires of you.Try taking her out,give her presents,anything but the perverted idea in your head !
And for the sake of your children,be a man and take that rediculous idea out of your head and shove it down the garbage can !!!Hope that saves your Life !!!~
on: September 27, 2007 7:49 PM | Reply
This person doesnot love his wife that's for sure . He just need her for some sex(like a sex toy) share her with others also this man likes group sex. His family life will be ruined.And chance of her becoming a prostitute. And ultimately you have no respect for each other . you will regret in the end... god save him
on: November 3, 2007 12:31 PM | Reply
well i personally think tht this guy is a fuking looser!!!!! he is not a man enough to satisfy his wife!!!!
or may b his insertion power has died down!!
remember one thing man if a girl is use too of two penis she can never b satisfied by one!!!!
on: November 11, 2007 6:43 PM | Reply
vesper - U bet..I also got the same feeling as I saw this..Hope my hubby permits to try it out once..
on: December 24, 2007 12:50 AM | Reply
i think there's nothing wrong with this guy wanting to watch her wife have sex with another man as long as it is with mutual consent,done in a safe manner,and not done on a routine basis.Only it would've been better if it was done in a swapping way or a 4-some as me and my husband like it to be.
on: December 29, 2007 4:18 PM | Reply
great courage man, do u need any service do let me know
on: January 19, 2008 2:31 AM | Reply
i love it.same feeling we have but its realy dissicult to have with other men bcoz its just thinking.. we can think during sex. we both me and my wife do alot and wishes for that.thnx
on: February 22, 2008 6:01 PM | Reply
I apriciate and admire this.i have also this fantacy ant i want to make it real. an i m trying for that.
on: September 9, 2008 8:29 PM | Reply
ALL MY DEAR FRIENDS,
REMEMBER MOST IMPORATANT THING IN LIFE IS 'FREEDOM' - FREEDOM TO LIVE LIFE AS YOU WANT. JUST NEED TO REMEMBAER THAT YOUR ACT SHOULD NOT HARM ANYBODY. BUT EVERYONE SHOULD ALSO REMEMBER THAT THEY SHUDNT FORCE OR RESTRICT ANYBODY JUST FOR THEIR EMOTIONAL VALUES. SO PLEASE DON'T ADVISE ANYBODY. JUST LET EVERYBODY LIVE AS THEY WANT. IF SOMEBODY WANTS SEXUAL FREEDOM HE/SHE HAS RIGHTS FOR IT. 99% PEOPLE IN THIS WORLD ARE HIPPOCRATS AND KEEPS DOUBLE STANDARD. ITS ONE LIFE - SO LIVE IT FULLY. I SUPPORT SEXUAL FREEDOM WITH PROPER CARE
on: September 27, 2008 5:31 PM | Reply
i think he loves his wife much.
on: December 30, 2008 3:32 AM | Reply
I Guess U are born on ur mother's One night stand !!!