Q. This is one of those “good news/bad news” situations I wanted to ask you about. After several years of almost no sex life at all, my husband recently bought a digital camera and it's really reenergized things in our bedroom. But now my husband is constantly filming our lovemaking sessions and, truth to tell, it's beginning to make me feel more and more uncomfortable. He says he's doing it just for himself and would never show them to anybody and I believe him, but I still wish he'd stop. Still, I'm afraid if I ask him to, our love life will dry up again. What should I do? — Shruti
A. You've got to tell him how you feel, Shruti, since it's not fair or healthy for either partner to repeatedly engage in any lovemaking activity that makes them uncomfortable. Besides, in today's electronic age, it's not unusual for a “private” sex tape to somehow end up getting leaked to a very public cyberspace audience...just ask Pam Anderson and Tommy Lee! But,thankfully, all is not lost. The very fact that hubby's voyeuristic hobby reinvigorated your sex life means there's still an ember that needs to be fanned back into an inferno. I'd recommend the two of you take a field trip to an adult bookstore as a couple and find some new, intriguing gizmo that appeals to both of you.
Comments (6)
on: May 13, 2007 4:50 AM | Reply
From my point of view or you can call it my perception, he is juz goin through a phase of fetish or orgy. If we take a look at the whole situation in a broader way, its actually ok to ve a private sextape. This kind of activity comes into reality after everything is already dried up (in context to wot u said).. n as obvious, we all know, its not one sided game.. both the sexes ve to be engaged in the activity..
So, concluding it.. enjoy this.. take a look at the hole scenario from ur husbandz point of view n I am dead sure, u will have an awsome orgasm..
on: May 13, 2007 4:51 AM | Reply
I really thinks is very easy..
All u have to do is to open this website and show him how easy the sex tapes are leaked if he has bit on common sense he will understand and proly send one for us to watch :) (cos we have not seen yet if he is ^^ diretor material) then delete all..
Bobby
on: May 13, 2007 9:12 PM | Reply
Dear Shruti- I and we are eagrly waiting to sneak peak of your homemade video- hope to see you soon on debonair blog :D heheheh
on: May 13, 2007 11:48 PM | Reply
Or just look around, this site is filled with such videos.
on: May 14, 2007 3:06 AM | Reply
yippppeee!!!! another video coming soon !!!!!
on: December 29, 2007 4:23 PM | Reply
there is nothing wrong in doing so be happy about it.