Q. I have this strange problem that is troubling me for a long time. I feel myself attracted to 10-15 year old girls and enjoy having sex with them. I just can't think anything except having sex with teenagers. I know this is wrong as well as unethical, but I am unable to control my sexual urge. My wife is unaware of my habit. Please help me come out of this strange attraction.
A. Sex with teenagers is not only unethical but also a criminal activity, which carries a strict penalty. A short term in jail is a sure shot remedy for the sexual preference.
Comments (9)
on: May 17, 2007 3:38 AM | Reply
great advice dude
he.....he....he
on: May 17, 2007 4:14 AM | Reply
lol..Nice remedy ..
on: May 17, 2007 8:14 AM | Reply
Dude, you have serious problem. This criminal act to have sex with under aged girls. If you dont control your self then soon you will be in jail as child sex predator...
on: May 17, 2007 10:42 AM | Reply
A recent court order in India has permitted teen sex from 16 yrs onwards, provided its consensual. Anyway, above 18 year old girls, who are also 'teens' are actually adults and there is no leaga problem in sex with an adult.
on: May 17, 2007 5:56 PM | Reply
Hey, this guy is actually asking for help, and i think that in itself is very commendable...surely a more constructive suggestion is what is needed, instead of a threat of jail for a crime which (it seems) he has not committed so far, and wishes not to.
Mate, I suggest you talk to a specialist doctor or even take advise from police, or go to someone else in authority, to try and tell them about this problem. I don't think this site is the right place for discussing this.
What you must bear in mind is is that the age of young boys/girls you are talking about is a very innocent age...just imagine the torture you would be subjecting them to should you go ahead without controlling yourself. And it doesn't end there - a lot of the times, once these children grow up, they take such people to cooourt for prosecution - sometimes even after 30 years....then imagine your torture! So, if you are getting these urges, then try and get help from specialist doctor ang get rid of the urges, before you fall....
hope you work it out....
on: May 17, 2007 6:28 PM | Reply
What kind of an answer is that?? Please read below for a more appropriate answer.
This is a serious problem faced by many guys, as it is something which they don't do voluntarily.
Hey buddy listen.. the problem is that you are attraced to that sexual innoncence that you find only in teenagers.
In fact nowadays that age of sexual innocence is reducing further & further, it used to be about 18 then sweet 16, but now its come down to maybe 12 or 13.
So what you like is that tenderness and innocence, but you need to somehow get that sexual bit out of it.
It won't be easy but when you see a teen, try to see how innocent she is and get happiness from that rather than trying to lust for her. It will work, but you need to control your thoughts constantly.
Try to think of someone you respect the most in this world. A friend, an uncle or a brother anyone. Then any teen you see try to imagine, would I still lust for her, if she was the daughter of that person I respect so much.
That may help.
If still your mind says yes, then you are very much obssessed, so you need to find other fetishes to lose that obsession.
That is how it is, to loose an obsession you need to gain another.
Experiment new things with your wife, get your sexual life more active so that your mind is not always on sex at other times. Try to be sexually satisfied most of the time.
That way your mind won't think of sex as soon as you see a teen.
Also you can try any physical sports or adventurous activites which you enjoy. You are never too old to try it.
Try anything from Bunjee jumping, swimming, tennis to even just jogging or walking early mornings.
Hope it helps buddy. I have tried my best to explain. And lastly don't beat yourself up with guilt.
It is a serious obsession that you can fix but only you can do it and can't ask anyone to help with.
All the best for that.
You CAN.
on: May 18, 2007 12:37 PM | Reply
sex with young girls carry a punishment of atleast 10 years extendable upto 14 years.
on: May 18, 2007 3:33 PM | Reply
This is the best sex advice iv heard in a long time real funny but correct at the same time
on: May 19, 2007 5:01 PM | Reply
I think its normal to fantasise . sometimes everone thinbks about this. all you need to do is to remember that whomsoever u r married to . think of her as some girl you have seen and do . this way you will not allow this fantasy to go waste and also enjoy it